2007-03-08 16:41:45 · 15 answers · asked by pangitme10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well that depends on a few things....is he getting help for his problem? Is he in denial of his problem? How severe is it?
If it's a problem that hes' trying to get help for then I would not want to give him up.
But if he has boderline personality disorder, OCD & an anger management problem...AND he doesn't think anything is wrong with him, then adios!
2007-03-08 16:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they have a disorder and I already know them well, I wouldn't give them up unless they refused to get help. It also depends on the situation. I'm not going to be with a sociopath. If it's something like depression, an anxiety disorder, etc., it can be treated or managed. All people are imperfect, so I think we should give each other chances within reason. If the person is abusive and refuses to get help though, they are just going to ruin your life. You should stay away.
2007-03-09 12:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. He was not willing to take control of his disability. I was not willing to be a babysitter for a 30 year old man. The decision was obvious to me. I gave him a chance. He didn't wanna take his Lithium. Relationship over.
2007-03-09 00:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by queensassey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes his psychological problems can affect your own sanity adversely, and you end up having to make a decision. Having to deal with someone who is bipolar can be devastating.
2007-03-09 00:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is someone who sticks with you through the bad and good, if you are not willing to stick with your friend then they are not worthy of you, how would you like it if you were in your friends position and all your friends left you.
2007-03-09 01:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by monica4rd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Im in love with someone who is diagnosed with borderline personality. its hard but im not willing to give him up.
2007-03-09 00:46:38 · answer #6 · answered by Miss D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the problem. is he willing to get help? you have to ask if you could live with his psych probs if he doesnt get help for the rest of your life.
2007-03-09 00:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by tryinthis2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm...would you give up your love if he injured his back and needed extensive therapy for the physical pain? What is the difference between the physical and mental, if they can both be treated?
2007-03-09 00:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by rey m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't try to be his psychologist that's for sure! it makes for a strange unhealthy relationship. but if you can be strong and constant, without too much heavy stuff, that is good.
2007-03-09 00:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by sam_alot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is difficult enough, without trying to maneuver it with someone who is "wacko" !
It depends on how strong you REALLY are !
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2007-03-09 00:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Maewest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋