he called the cops on me because he said he wanted to leave me and I grabbed a knife and threathened to cut myself, but I ended up getting arrested for assualt and battery for slapping him. How can I fully trust him now?
2007-03-08 16:38:35 · 25 answers · asked by flirtz1984 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't trust him!Why would you hurt yourself for some half a man!!!!!!!!!!!! I pretty sure you are a beautiful young lady just leave him alone! This is a big world travel move leave your promblems behind explore! You are so much better than that!
2007-03-08 16:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by God's chosen 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Truely a sad situation and it will be hard to trust after that act!! Does this happen often? Doesn't he realize all hes doing by calling the po-po is in the long run costing you both money that could be spent on fun things you could do together. I mean really think about it. Good Luck !! And keep the cops out of your business as much as possible. It usually only makes matters worse.
2007-03-08 16:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well smoking pot bring many problems. He saw you stoned and act like a crazy, Would he let you drug yourself? no he loves you! he did care about you.That's why he end up called the cop on you. It got risk for his life and your life cause you took a knife. It's not normal. You were going to cut yourself, definitely not normal. He fear for your life so he better be off of you. right, you should stop smoke weeds then go back him and try to work thing out,. I hope he didn't fed up with you.
2007-03-08 17:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by foxxmay2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the definitions of an abusive relationship is when the abuser threatens suicide or makes a suicidal gesture, which is what you did. You desperately need counseling. If you have been arrested for assault and battery, and you were slapping him, then the courts will probably insist that you get counseling. You really, really need to do that, to explore why you feel the need to hit him. You also need to separate from him until you put yourself together. Sorry. Please recognize that you are the one who is wrong here, not him.
2007-03-08 16:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if he is trying to set u up, he does want to leave u, this is a really wrong way of doing it. don't do harm to yourself over him, he isn't worth it at all, u need to divorce him, he isn't with u anymore. wants to get things on u, wants to show authorities that there is something wrong with u, if u have children, he wants custody when he divorces u. he wants to have documentation on u that u have problems so he can come out in the divorce smelling like a rose, instead of the rat he really is. just be careful what u do, and no there is no way u can trust a man who set u up, and hopes u fall. as a man who loves u will not do this, a man who loves u will protect u from harm.
2007-03-08 21:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should be making a trip to divorce court.
If he loves you so much why try and leave you?
Getting arrested for assault and battery can ruin your life if convicted. This is not something that you should take lately!
2007-03-08 16:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if man dose any thing or said any thing that makes life harder for you or on you in any way and you can not believe with every shred of your heart and sole that he didn't have your best interest in mind even to the point of standing by you and taking the heat for you or even sacrificing himself then he dose not truly love at all. the diffinishion of love is a person that wants a relashionship with the object of an earnist willingness to find and help you find the very best in life for you! not for him but YOU uncondishionly! now and always NO MATTER who or what you decide to be, he will want the best for you, even if it is without him, if this is him he loves you but it probly isnt odds are WAY WAY aginced it
2007-03-08 16:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What started this in the first place? Was there an argument? Well, all I can say is that your marriage seems to be on the rocks and maybe prepare yourself for the worse. Sorry, can't give much advice now.
2007-03-08 16:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had pot on you or are doing drugs, it has to stop.
If you are doing drugs,you have to choose between your marriage and the drugs. Reverse the roles. If your husband was doing something illegal and you weren't how would you feel? And you certainly would not want him to assault you.
If you are doing drugs get help if you have to. It sounds like your husband loves you. Part of your behavior is rooted in the fact that you want to control him.
2007-03-08 16:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by LORD BALTIMORE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 10:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋