why my husband reach his orgasm so fast(1 min)may be 2 at last and i could not?

Question

when we have sex he just go in and ta duh!!
finish "P. and i could not even feel anything

Answer 1

He seems to be very selfish in these matters.

Answer 2

You did not mention your Husband and your age. Being strong for long time is a matter of practice and experience. Try to follow this - 01) Discuss with your Husband whether he has any problem, 02) suggest him not to think about it too much. Tell him if other can do then he also can do, 03) request him to do exercises, take good food and rest, 04) in bed, ask him to do some other job..kissing you, licking you, and other before penetration, 05) do not insert the manhood before it is hard, 06) after penetration, wait for a minute for thrusting, 07) try to guess when he may ejaculate (it may take some time to understand), and stop all activity that time, 08) while pause, ask him take some deep breath, 09) and then again kissing , licking, 10) again start thrusting...and repeat these process (07 ~10) again and again as much time he can. You need to support him also. While he stop...you also should not show any movement. I wish these will work. After few days you will get perfect satisfaction. Good luck.

Answer 3

Your husband is not concentrating on you at all. Any man can do this if he wants to, but most men would like to have their partners at least enjoy their time together. Smarten him up or ship him out. A lifetime of dissatisfaction is a long time.

Just tell him: I don't enjoy our lovemaking because you don't spend any time or effort making it enjoyable for me.

If you can't tell him, make an appointment with a sex therapist; or a lawyer. If he's that selfish in the bedroom is he that selfish in everything else?

Answer 4

Keep in mind that most men can orgasm within 10 mins to where it takes a female at minimal 30 minutes. Try doing some foreplay first and being that he will always get off make it a point for him to get you off first.

Answer 5

Your husband needs to learn to "practice" on his own. He can increase his lasting time by masturbating and not allowing himself to finish for a longer period of time each time.

Also, make sure that you talk to him about how you feel about this. Trust me... he knows it isn't good. He needs to focus on pleasuring you in other ways. This will help him last longer as time goes on.

Hope this helps.

Answer 6

In a way it isnt such a bad thing. Obviously you really turn him on. Tell him what you want in foreplay

Answer 7

your husband must learn ejaculatory control and try last longer pills

* Don't use drugs or alcohol. They're distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the "relaxation" involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It's the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
* Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn't take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
Then move on to masturbation with a lubricated hand. Use saliva, vegetable oil, or a commercial sexual lubricant. For most people, lubricants increase the sensual intensity of erotic fondling. Follow the same program: Masturbate until you approach your point of no return, then back off. Repeat this several times over several sessions.
* Once you have good control during masturbation, and appreciate whole-body sensuality, and feel comfortable breathing deeply during lovemaking, then you're ready for the couples program -- if you're in a couple. The couple approach is called the "Stop-Start Technique." First, arrange "stop" and "start" signals with your lover, for example, a light pinch or tap, or a tug on an ear.
Then, your lover strokes your penis by hand as you lie still. When you approach your point of no return, give the "stop" signal. Your lover immediately stops stroking you and simply holds your penis gently, as you continue to breathe deeply and pays close attention to the sensations you're feeling. When you no longer feels close to ejaculation, gives the "start" signal, and your lover begins stroking you again. How many stops and starts should you do? A half-dozen over a 15-minute period works well for most couples. Do what feels comfortable for you.

With stop-start, the focus is on the man. He's the one learning the new skill. But don't forget the woman's sensual needs. As part of each practice session, she might guide your hand over her to show you what she likes.

Once you've gained good ejaculatory control with your lover's hand, try the same stop-start procedure with oral caresses. Again, you begin by lying still.

Once you've gained good control orally, feel free to start moving. You're making love again -- but now you have ejaculatory control. Congratulations.

Here are some other suggestions for lasting longer:

Answer 8

Guess he's lucky you stick around. Find a new guy.

What are you doing tomorrow?

Answer 9

tell him you're finished in 30 seconds and pull him out,

Answer 10

hmm tell him to stop and try the squeezing method ...because it seem like he is not caring for you... or at least give lot of oral..there are also retardation creams...