2007-03-08 15:47:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
I don't think so darling.
There's no need for you to get embarrased.
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2007-03-08 17:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be extremely embarrassed that in the year 2007 people are still of a mindset that this question is asked. I know that darker skinned people are viewed somewhat differently in the Philippines, but even there, it has no effect on their character. I know that, as an American, I am prone to imperialistic views that others, the world over, do not necessarily share. I know that where you come from the rules are a bit different than they are in my back yard. That being said, though, right is right and wrong is wrong. The simple fact of the matter is that bad people come in all colors. You can’t tell a bad person by looking at one, but you sure can by listening to them. anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable for the color of your kid’s skin isn’t in the ‘good guy’ camp in my estimation and I would encourage you to treat them accordingly.
2007-03-09 00:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 7⤊ 2⤋
As a guidance counselor, i could see that children are very much affected on how people react to them. We could not change how other people will perceive them.
But as parents, we should be able to give them not only love, but assurance that they are accepted that they are beautiful in their own way.
When a child thinks he is beautiful, then he is. it is just a matter of perspective.
2007-03-09 10:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by ask_mr_dan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,if we are dark there is lot of embarrassment.But don't discourage children for that.Because God has created everyone and GOD will take care of everything.Instead,let ur children concentrate on studies,career,so that when they r well settled,this dark thing vanishes automatically.
2007-03-08 23:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by Preethi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not be embarassed by the natural color of your children. Everyone is not perfect and you know it.Even the people who are laughing at your children are not perfect.Just don't be taken away by their sayings to your children. Just be yourself and give them your best love that you can give to your children.
2007-03-09 19:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look lady life like that, what did you expect . The people reaction isn't to your children it's to you .They will go thru the majority of their lifes being ridiculed becoz you put them in that situation.Most likely they won't be accepted by society as a whole, due to their color., which is a shame since they are innocent.
2007-03-09 01:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by john r 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO, ignore!!! yuor children, be PROUD!!teach them to ignore other people staring!! IMPORTANT for them!!! tell you this story, " my wife and i took a friends 2 kids for a tour to the zoo, both had fireengine red hair, both of us, blackhaired!! talk about LOOKS, you could clearly read: THE MILKMAN MUST HAVE DONE IT!! on peoples faces! ouch! so don't show any shame to your kids, they will pick it up and then inferiority complexes might rear its ugly heads!!! don't!!!
2007-03-12 06:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you expect others to see your chid in positive ways if you being their mother is embarras having them.my son is also dark but i never felt he was treated somewhat different from his classmates or playmates.he is even admire by many because of his merits in school.he is very sociable and his color never interfere with his social life.i love his sweet smile and i would never be feel embarass being his mom actually i am proud to be his mom.if you were jaya's mom would you be embarass because shes dark?think about it
2007-03-09 01:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by tisya 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
no, the color of the skin is not a raison to be embarrass.
If some people look at them "funny" because of their teint, they should be ashamed of themself.
Smart and beautiful people are from all colors - (and stupid people too).
Be proud of your children in any circonstance !
2007-03-08 23:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sunny Magali 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really envy you a lot coz you got children... me i dont... you have to be proud of them... they are from you... your flesh and your blood... Dont't mind others just think of your beautiful children... And in other country they are not dark they are brown very beautiful complexion... you have to be proud of them.. lastly, congrats fo having one...
2007-03-09 01:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by mackey_mouse 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To quote: I feel like people...
Notice your statement, Binibini? You feel. Subjective.
The reality may be different. People may just happen to glance at the children. They may not judge the children at all.
Please note that our perception of our surroundings and what is actually happening may be different.
2007-03-09 00:24:22 · answer #11 · answered by tranquil 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋