I have moved from Toronto to california.I am living with my husband and kids and financially doing ok.But I feel always unhappy and lonely and think of going back home.Do you think moving back home to my family will make me a happier person?
2007-03-08 15:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by Megan S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I were you, I would stay with my kids and husband. They need you!
2007-03-08 15:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might depend on how long you have been away from Toronto. But basically you are unhappy and lonley so something has to happen, you can't go on like that. Is the cause of the problem being away from home of some issues to do with your husband. Either way try to identify the problems with you husband and fix them if you can. If he's okay and you really just want to go home, then tell him you must go. If you are both in love then he will be happy to go with you
2007-03-08 23:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club I am in the same situation as you are.My home is in Maryland and all my family is there.Because of my husbands job we moved to Memphis for three years now we live in Florida.May will make it another three years away from everyone I no and love. 6 long and lonely years and to make it even worse my husband is only home on weekends. You see your not alone there are many of us lonely housewives out here.Maybe we should start a club for wives that live out of there home state. I think if you leave your husband you will be sorry,remember he is the only one that can keep you safe and warm at night and who loves you and is the father of your kids. What will the kids think of you for leaving there father just because you don't like where you are living.Now if he were to move you to Memphis then no one would blame you for going back home.
2007-03-08 23:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make your home where you feel most confortable. Remember that you are a family. all aspects must be considered each family member not just yourself. I`m sure the weather is nicer in California. Isn`t it like -5c in Toronto. Is temperature being considered as confort. In my case that has been what helped me. Its -22c in Longueuil, Quebec. Here in Vancouver, BC its +5c. Far more confortable. No wheres the amout of errogant people neither.
2007-03-08 23:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have not seen my family for 10 yrs and I'm happier with my kids and my husband. This is my new family I got. You got a new family in California. Let's meet friends and kids friend's mother group. You will be fine!
2007-03-09 00:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by foxxmay2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if just moving back home will make you happy. To decide whether to move back or not you have to decide your reasons for moving away in the first place. Then think about if you have always missed home, or if it has just developed. Think of the advantages and disadvatages of living in each place.
Take time to think about your motivations for wanting to move back, and what your options are for moving back. Many times people move back and want it to be just like it was when they moved away and things have changed and they are not happy.
2007-03-08 23:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by steffiegirl815 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out why your sad before you change your life or anyone elses. Maybe you are depressed, it happened to me when I moved away from home. I was miserable but I saw the Dr and am in counseling and im doing great. But def.. before you make any changes to your life or anyone elses you need to figure out why your unhappy.
2007-03-08 23:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by chantakg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, can you find a group of friends for support. Is there a Mother's group at a church or school you can join? Are your kids in school? If so can you volunteer there to meet people?
2007-03-08 23:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by daquimops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you have been away from home, if only for short time - gee give it time - it may work out - if not go back home
2007-03-08 23:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by boonoora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have a family that needs you, your kids and husband....
2007-03-10 04:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋