this is a long story. my best friend and i were so close, we talked everyday and we felt like no one can break us apart. and then this girl all of a sudden walks in our relationship and starts taking my best friend away from me. and i feel bad because she doesnt talk to me as much and the girl does it on purpose because she doesnt like me. what do i do ?
2007-03-08 15:13:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find a new friend...
2007-03-09 19:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If u are best friends then NO one should be able to come and break the two of u apart. Best friends ARE allowed to have other friends but never disregard the most important one so if that is what she is doing then u should have a talk with her to let her know how it makes u feel. Don't bring up the other girl because it should not be about her it is only about your relationship with your friend
2007-03-08 23:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same exact situation right now and I still don't know what do about it. I just want to let out all out. Telling both my friend and the person who took them away everything that I think and feel. I'm not sure what you would be willing to do but if that sounds good, you should try it. Better yet, just do whatever you find comfortable doing. Whether it is just trying to grin and bear it or staying away from the two for a little while. I hope this helps.
2007-03-08 23:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can do much coz if you try to fight back now, people will think you are unreasonable. People will grow at every stage, just take this a learning stage where you can see others behaviour clearly.
You should ask your friend what have caused the friendship to change and see what is her response and then you must determined what is the next step you should be taking
2007-03-09 00:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur best fren and ask her y has she reduced talking to u al of a sudden. tell her tat any new frenship shud not make them apart... try telling her the truth tat the new girl doesn't like u. but dont compell ur fren from breaking frenship with the new girl. well, tat has to be her choice. But can always talk her into not increasing the distance between u both.
2007-03-08 23:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her!! I think it is best, when you are good friends with someone then you shouldn't let a Brat come in and take your friendship away, just tell her your feelings.
2007-03-08 23:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to make new friends and when you have new friends you will not this problem at all. You are just being "left out" because your best friend is busy.
2007-03-09 03:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend is that easily distracted by someone new, then she probably wasn't really your best friend. Choose your friends much more carefully and they won't disappoint you so badly.
2007-03-09 12:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Friends come and go. If she was really your friend then she wouldn't have let this other person come in between you.
2007-03-08 23:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it
2007-03-08 23:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋