Do you think he's hiding something?

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Well, the scenario goes like this...I met this guy at a gym club I attend.I wasn't really attracted to him, but he seemed really nice and comforting.Everytime I would see him, he's always come up to me and see how i was doing.I notice there was a ltlle flirting action going on, he gave me his cell number and when I called him he told me he found me to be VERY Attractive, and that if I ever wanted to hang out ot go to a movie call him, so i finally did three weeks ago..and all I can say is that he hasn't been positive.I told him that we should hang out, he tells me in a couple of weeks because he has no money, then i call hima few weeks later and he tells me that he's busy, maybe next week, I text message him to see if we were going out still, he tells me that some things came up, and he was suppossed to hang out with a few people, and he'll let me know he was free...so I'm feeling very rejected.,and I don't know why all the distance from him, when he intiated the "hanging out

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21 hours ago
He text messaged saying he was sorry..and his bad" Should I give him a chance or better yet should I call or text him back?

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36 minutes ago
Also..this guy has in the past called me and hung...and when I see him he's blushing and smiling..so I don't know what to think?

First of all...I text messaged him a few times...probably once week i would say...and yes I am lonley

Answer 1

Oh, you must be very lonely to even give this turkey the time of day. He's not interested, or he's not available, and he's not worth the effort anyway.

Answer 2

Why don't you leave this guy alone? He has done everything possible to tell you that he's not into you and you're still calling him and acting desperate. In the first place, maybe he's the type of guy who may have liked you at first, but would have preferred to initiate the calls instead of having you hound him. He probably has someone else whom he prefers and can't decide if he should get involved with you. Stop making a fool of yourself..

Answer 3

He obviously doesn't like you that much or he would want to hang out. Let it go. Maybe he did like you and stopped for some reason. You're probably annoying him by asking all the time.

Answer 4

Sounds like he just likes the chase and then turns his back on it when you show some interest, i'd stop contacting him and wait for him to contact you. Next time he does though say no as you have some plans already and make him work for you if he wants you.

Answer 5

You should think that you are just one on the list of females he has done this too, and that you took too long to call because he has someone who went out right then. So, go on and just nod at him the next time and leave that alone.

Answer 6

Its obvious. He's thinking of excuses not to hang out with you anymore. Get over him and move on. Playing games or not he's not worth it

Answer 7

I would say to never mind if he's hiding something.
The fact is that where you are concerned he's a monumental waste of your valuable time.

Anyone with an ounce of self-esteem would have cut this runaround off a long time ago. ;-)

Answer 8

he has someone else, and hasn't got time for u right now, but keeps u hanging on with promises. i would forget about him unless he initiated the contact. he could be married too,

Answer 9

just try to call the the gym guy back. if he doesnt fix this, then maybe you should go for the other guy if he is any better

Answer 10

excuse after excuse isnt that enough of a hint, he dont like you, he plays mind games with you, dont answer his calls, change your number and dont talk to him at the gym...... find someone else