also, i am 19 years old.
2007-03-08 14:58:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why? You are young and have things to experience, play the field and see what surfaces. If you want to marry, marry someone much older than you who is ready to settle down..
2007-03-08 15:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u crazy? At least u need to fall in love with a person and that person should feel the same way to some extent. No one controls falling in love or who to marry ( exception if u're a heiress, socialite or tycoon-your money gives u some power).
Otherwise u come from a tribal culture or some sort such as Hinduism, Islam to name a few then u have a planned marriage.
But be grateful that u were were raised in a free society, and appreciate what u have.
I hope u know today (8th March) is International women's day, and it's not ONLY a celebration for the successes of women worldwide, but it's fighting for the cause of female suppression in such societies. Think about it, some of these women have fewer rights , and are forced to marry against their will and their heart.
Be grateful that u are far from this scenario!
Unless, u insist, an 80-yr-old geek would be pleased to get a 19yr-old bride.lol.. Start visiting old people's home or exotic dance bars.
2007-03-08 23:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You're too young to be sealing up the rest of your life. Take your time and look around the world for a while. The experiences you will have will help to mold you into the person you will be the rest of your life and that will make finding your partner better for you both.
2) Don't look for someone with your sights set on marriage or any goal whatsoever. That turns a person into a means to an end. Would you want to be treated like that? Don't look for someone. Let them find you. Have no expectations. Let this person be who they are. It may take a while, but the rewards are worth the time and experiences.
2007-03-08 23:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r 19 and so eager to get married, u cant find someone somewhere. When the time is right ,love will come knocking on your door and u will find the one man really right for u. So be a bit patient.
2007-03-09 00:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.k. you find a guy,when you are actually in a relationship long enough to get to know the person,spend time with them,and realize that the person is for you and you want to spend the rest of your life with them.You just don't grab a man and say hey lets get married or go on one date with a guy and decide to get married.Marriage is something to seriously take in to consideration.You are giving vows,promising to the lord that you will standy by this person and be there for them no matter what.
2007-03-08 23:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by TH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The scripture says, "He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing". Pray, and let the man find you. Real women don't run after men. Your qualities will attract a real man to you.
2007-03-09 00:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Snobunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try personal ads in your local newspaper or on craigslist.
2007-03-08 23:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! pray and ask God to bring that special person into your life, prayer opens the door for God to work in our lives......Jesus loves you
2007-03-08 23:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what the hell is the rush?
give it a few years, enjoy life, then decide to settle down
2007-03-08 23:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're still young. You're ''Prince Charming'' will show up when you least expect, so take your time. :)
2007-03-08 23:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋