She seems to be getting more serious about the little things in life when not much has really changed yet. Why?
Do I need to change or is the new me growing old with the same old acts and personality. I have been myself for ever what Know?
2007-03-08 14:56:59 · 14 answers · asked by Marty R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since your wedding is getting closer she is just probably just getting overwhelmed and it shows. After the wedding you will see you are both the same person.
Congrats!!
2007-03-08 15:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a transitional phase. Relax, you are not losing your identity. You are simply an extension and a part of someone else.
You will gradually continue to grow and your life will change; as well as the way you use to do things. You have someone else to consider now. Just let this transition come naturally, don't worry about what you should do, could do, need to do, etc, etc., I am certain your partner is feeling the pressure of planning a wedding and starting a new life herself. We all handle "change" differently. Continue to be yourself, don't worry about "living up to any standards."
It's quite simple, enjoy the journey.
We all must grow and sometimes that in itself can be overwhelming. By the way... Congratulations!
2007-03-08 15:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me both of you are under pressure. Its normal though. The closer the wedding day the more pressure you feel. But yet it can be exciting. Hey, think about it. You two not going to be as in gf/bf no more. Is a bigger step .. a big commitment. You guys going to live together, support each other and loads more. She might gettin serious on lil things becuz she want everythign to be perfect. Hopefully that is the reason for her to acted this way. Just to make sure double check it urself. You don't want to mary someone who is so picky and whinny you know. Talk to her. And oh yea.. the day before marriage have a day break . You go out with your guy friends and she goes out with her gfs. next day just be happy that you are going to marry this beautiful lady here. =) cherish wat you got
2007-03-08 15:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by ceci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 08:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is most like just nerves and stress from getting ready for this event and the reality that it's going to happen. Everyone goes thru it to a certain extent.
just step back and look at all the reasons you wanted to marry her in the first place, are those reasons and feelings still there? if so just try to relax and go with the flow.
2007-03-08 15:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of pressure on both of you, it is a life changning committment you are about to embark upon. Just be understanding of your future bride's feelings, be supportive and let her know that you are both under pressure but that you have each other to help ease the pain.
2007-03-08 15:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RELAX sounds like almost any guy feeling thats pretty normal in having the cold feet jitters. There is alot of work in getting married
2007-03-08 15:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by jessica s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be wedding jitters,if you feel pressured let your fiancee know,so you two can sit down and talk it out so that you don't feel pressured.If you think you two need to slow down,just let her know you would feel better if things wouldn't be pushed so much.
2007-03-08 15:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im engaged and i feel like ive been picking on my man too, but i think the reason is... im just now starting to pay attention to the little things, i didnt even notice before, but now it bugs the crap outta me, and im not sure if this is really what i want. sorry for the bad news :-(
2007-03-08 15:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to figure this out before the wedding date, it would be considerate of you to get this resolved.
2007-03-08 15:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋