this is kind of long but i really need some advice on this its very important?

Question

my dau.graduates this yr as does 3 other girls they all grew up as cousins all parents are good friends also. so last july two of us parents decided to have one big party and invite a band that we like.the party was to be at one persons house because he has never got to show off his new house so he really wants to do it there i have no problem with that. we asked the other girl to join also everything was going great until now all of a sudden this other girl wants the party at her house and her g/m is the one who asked the band to play for us and she goes to watch them every weekend. i dont want the party there either does the other family but if we have separate partys then the band will go with the other girl since her g/m is the one who asked them even though it was all our idea and we invited this family to join our party. see this girl is rich and very spoiled also and has to be the center of everything ....srry out of room more in details please read them too

this girls mom was my best friend a sister to me and i loved her dearly and she would not have stood for this at all. anyway this girl is using her late mom as and excuse to have the party at her house so she can be the cool one and once again my daughter has to stand by and watch. i dont think its fair . what do you guys think? who should have the party and who should get the band? and how would you handle this? i love all these people and dont want hard feelings . and dont think im jelous because i am not i just wanted to for once give my daughter something no one else was going to have a big party with a band but if its at this other girls house then everyone will even forget that the other 3 girls graduated too.

Answer 1

Stay with the original plans and hire your own band if necessary.

Answer 2

Well, your choices are to let this girl decide for everyone what will happen, to consult the other people involved (including the girls graduating) and come to an agreement about what to do, or to throw your own party, with or without band.

Sorry to say, "rich girl" knows how to be sure she's the center of attention (how sad) and you can't guarantee what anyone else will do. You can let "rich girl" throw her own party and throw a separate party on a different day, the next day, for example, somewhere else. The band could then make both gigs.

Good luck!

Answer 3

You might just have to have a separate party for your daughter with a different band. Ask her what she wants. Is seeing the band, worth her giving up her own party? The spoiled girl sounds like she just uses the tragedy of her mom to get anything she wants and someone will eventually have to show her that it is not all about her all the time. I'm sure her mom would have trusted you to give her daughter a little wake up call into reality.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

talk to her if you didn't,if she still insist than....Just forget about it,let her be the rich, spoiled,center of attention.You and the other family should plain something else,something that would be remembered,like never be forgotten,a memorable.It would be better,plus you wouldn't have to put up with her.Just have fun,don't stress over it,you never know....she might just come around.