Lately I have taken a good look at myself, and I have to say, I do not like what I see. I have turned into a mean bitter person who HATES everyone. I have ran all my friends away with my bitter attiude, and I am probably on the verge of losing my boyfriend. It seems like I be little him every chance I get and make him feel like crap. I know that I would not want to be treated like this, yet I just cant stop. I feel like a big bully who NO-One wants to be around anymore. Lately I've keep to myself and just stay locked in my house. I dont go out, I dont have fun, I just stay all to myself. I feel like I dont know how to make friends and to have fun anymore. What do I do? How can I change this and go out and start to live a normal life and have fun again?? Only serious answers reply please?? I dont need anyone's sarcasm, Thankyou!!
2007-03-08 14:30:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're not evil. youre just misunderstood.
2007-03-08 14:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by james B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have to have attitude adjusments some times. Some people go thru their whole lives wondering why things are not working out for them,but not realizing it is their attitude all along. I'm proud of you for noticing some things about yourself that need to be changed. There are not that many people who can do that. You must be a wonderful person.
I don't think you are a mean spirited person deep down. You have a low self esteem and I think you act this way to cope with some things in your life that you don't know how to handle. There may be issues in your past that need to be spoken about. You may want to go to a counselor (even just one time helps).
I do have to say that I think you have a good shot at changing yourself for the better.
2007-03-08 22:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are hurting, you have been given strange and painful words that you dont deserve, a dream that you have been trying to accomplishe had been squashed down and you were belittled, think back, its usually a fault from someone you love and you didn't expect that he could hurt you emotionally... when you find out who, go have a serious talk or simply analyse his actions towards you, offer a truce by sharing what hurts you, have a compromise.. talking is cheap they say but if you use it another way talk is always done with volume...but if he does those awful things to you one more time, maybe he needs a good spanking, go find another one...smile.. you might not yet appreciate these phrases that i bring along with me each day, but someday you will...
" the boat may sink down deep, but never will it ever be unless you willed it to be.."
" to everything there is a reason, a time and a purpose under the heavens..." cheer up! you are not alone....did i help?:
2007-03-09 01:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by BlueAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessica, maybe some thing's bothering you and that's why you're reacting this way. I don't think you really mean to do any of those things. Find someone that is close to you that you can confide in, to get what ever is bothering you off your chest. I think after doing this you'll start feeling a whole lot better about yourself and treat others around you better too.
I hope I've helped.
2007-03-08 22:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least u are aware of what u've become, now the next step is to analyze yourself more, what turned u to be that kind of person..there must be a reason for all these changes..u obviously used to be a fun loving person..who drove u to be mean and evil spirited? when u find that out..then u can easily revert back to the old fun person u were
2007-03-08 22:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would seek some counseling or therapy. Maybe there are issues within yourself that you need to resolve to be happier, in turn, treating people better. You should treat people the way you want to be treated. Respect people and treat them with courtesy, it's only common decency. Definitely start by apologizing to the people that you have mistreated, especially your bf, it might help you feel better. Start your process to change before you have no one.
2007-03-08 22:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see about counseling. You might be depressed. Or you may have been hurt and want to drive others off before they leave you of their own choice. Or you might be afraid of giving up yourself for others. In other words, there might be lots of reasons, but at least feel good that you are aware of it. That's the important first step.
2007-03-08 22:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by mfg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time to yourself and look at your life see if you can figure out what is making you so angry and fix it.
if it's just plain old temper, what works for me is a good hard workout push yourself till your to tired to continue or join up with some kind of sport that will work out your aggressions such as martial arts
2007-03-08 22:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe theres something you lost sight of and if you find out what it is then get back in touch with it....and since there's no sarcasm...GOD IS WHAT YOU LACK....GOOD LUCK .... hope you find the answer you're looking for....
2007-03-08 22:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks like you need to find a hobby and stop worrying about things,if you do good things a chain reaction of good things will happen .....
2007-03-08 22:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by nuflicks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋