Ever since i entered high school, i have four good friends and we always hanged out together. They are Michelle, Melissa, Jesslyn & Carrie. All of us were in the same class in our first & second year but when the third year came, Carrie was in a different class because of her bad results. Since than, Carrie became super sensitive and she never spare a thought for me, Michelle, Melissa & Jesslyn. For example, All of us wanted to go ice-skating next sat and she actually wrote on her blog that she hope that this outing will be cancelled. Sorry to say, all of us really hate her very much. She's always talking back about others and never reflect on her own bitchy attitude. Besides, she's like a dog to people who join gangs. Almost all the guys in our batch don't like her. I really want to put an end to her idiotic attitude but how am i going to tell her in a nice way?
2007-03-08 14:29:29 · 4 answers · asked by Rachelle H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm sure she's made new friends being that she's in a different class and all. I would just not invite her to everything you guys do together and slowly disolve the relationship. As far as the guys in gangs, I agree with her maybe you should listen to some of the stuff she says she might just be right. GANGS ARE STUPID!!
2007-03-08 14:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you have a great attitude either. Did it ever occur to you how much difficulty she may be having while she is separated from her best friends AND being in classes due to her bad grades. She probably feels like she's being left behind in all aspects of her life. You'd probably be super-sensitive as well. Have the rest of you spared a thought for her and offered to help her with school so that she can get caught up and be in the same class next year? She probably wanted the skating to be cancelled b/c she feels like an outcast and doesn't feel like she has anything in common with you three anymore. Instead of working to put an end to her "idiotic attitude", either try to go out of your way to be nice to her and to understand what she's going through or simply don't invite her to hang out anymore. It's not your place to tell her how idiotic you think she's being. You still have your two best friends with you; she doesn't. Good luck.
2007-03-08 14:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just hurting because she ended up in a different class than you guys. She's insecure and envious that all you guys are still together and she's not. This is her way of showing her pain. She may be bitchy but mostly she is just missing you guys. When you tell her, try to be as sensitive as you can be, no matter what she says. Two wrongs don't make a right, so don't stoop to her level.
2007-03-08 14:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by TNP Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just email her that question you wrote - it says it all and you need to be honest.
2007-03-08 14:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sheris_Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋