I still for some reason believe that my ex wife still might want to be with me.She is dating other guys,but still manages to try to contact me.We promised eachother that we would not find someone else,but she broke that promise by dating other people.There are hurt feelings between our families really bad.That is a big problem.OK what are some signs that she still has feelings for me.We have not seen each other in 6 months.What will happen when we see eachother?By the way at one time she was absolutly head over heels in love with me.That cannot just go away.
2007-03-08 14:17:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is it that she was "head over heels in love" with you...??
Women usually cant express their feelings so blatantly... They feel a barrier from inside... But since this is a matter of heart and she has been with you for a while... and if you are a nice person which I am sure she will never be able to forget you..
Relationship is such a thing.. which is easier to make and tougher to break. When 2 heart connects, the mind doesn't work. I think iff both of you still love each other... there is no point being separate. Express yourselves and again be together. Love is precious.
Families may be a problem but it cannot be that grave that they come in the way of your true love. I am sure if both of you want you can make understand your families..
I would only say two word for ya, "Good Luck!!"
2007-03-08 14:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Bindass Hyderabadi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand who you can get divorced and promise each other there will be no one else. She is doing what divorced people normally do, they try to find someone else. It seems you have been left behind and are living in a dream world. Perhaps you should realise you are no longer married and neither of you is under any obligation to the other. If you get back together not knowing why you broke up in the first place you are courting disaster.
2007-03-08 22:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she probably does still care for you after you've spent part of your lives together as husband and wife there will always be some connection.
The whole thing about not finding someone else though was a promise made in vain. You are both human and will eventually run into another person who sparks your interest. both of you deserve to be happy even if it is with other people
2007-03-08 22:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by gypse76 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I believe most women hide their true feelings.!!
Some women can be hard to figure out too, as well as men~. If she is still trying to contact you, there must be a part of her that wants to hang on.! Keep her wondering whats going on with you.! Be happy, fake it if you need to.~~~~~~
Women are also curious creatures and they love a challenge sooooo--don't be to easy or available.
Above all, don't push, that will drive her further away~~~~.
Now having given this bit of advice, I will tell you, I have lived 76 yrs. and have 3 sons and 2 daughters happily married and I have learned a lot to pass on to those who care to listen.
Good luck to you and I wish you the very best~~~~~Jill
2007-03-08 22:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can just go away, it is called life and you are the one hanging on. people have the need to feel loved sometimes and like when people look up old flames, they wanna see if someone out there still loves them, they crave being loved, they don't look up old flames because they love them. it's a selfish action. they wanna know someone still loves them. maybe she is feeding the need, but it's not because she still loves you, she just doesn't want to feel forgotten , unloveable, and infatuation can fade as quickly as it came about. the day she sees you sitting on the toilet pinching off a couple nuggets her illusion of you being perfect can fade instantly. you are a real human and not her hero any more. that's the breaks, your only consolation is that one day you were on top. good luck.
2007-03-08 22:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking for trouble with someone who's truly showing you what type of person she is regarding a relationship. If you two made an agreement and she broke it what's going to happen if you happen to get back together. Whenever she's bored, you'll have to move aside for her needs? Get on with your life and make sure you are happy for a change.
2007-03-08 22:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being head over heels in love can indeed fade away. But I think it's silly of you to waste time wondering what she's up to when you could be out living your own life.
2007-03-08 22:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! I just went throught this with my ex husband. I started dating other people and even suggested he do the same. I was doing everything I could to push him out of my life so I could get over him. But it didn't work. If she is still contacts you there are feelings there, trust me!
2007-03-08 22:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by cc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she truly loved you she would be with you now, not with other guys......... she may have been head over heels in love with you before, but hey she has moved on - so should you, get over it you are wasting your time waiting for her to make up her mind.......... and promises do get broken.........
2007-03-08 22:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by boonoora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're trying to convince yourself that she still cares. Well, the "proof" is in the pudding. If she cared for you, she would be WITH you. I don't want to sound mean, but that's my take on this. If she REALLY cared for you, she'd be WITH you....not stringing you along like she is.
2007-03-08 22:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋