I'm white but he seems to be obscessed with black women with big behinds. I was shocked. I don't know what to think. Does he fantasize about them when he's with me? why would he want to be with me? I am not very shapely like a black woman. I am confused.
2007-03-08 14:16:13 · 11 answers · asked by mariabianchi 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
What should you do? Stop posting this same question every 5 minutes and jump on him and show him that YOU are more exciting and spontaneous than looking at his mags. Obviously, the guy needs physical attention from you while instead you're going through his personal property (he's a boyfriend, not a child, and entitled to privacy) and complaining on a public internet site. You're not confused--you are immature.
2007-03-08 14:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by HisChamp1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he is ALSO attracted other types of women is not a problem......I have been married 18 years I have a huge crush on Vin Diesle I even pretend my hubby is him from time to time and my hubby knows all about it and doesnt care. Vin and my husband are very very different. Hes with you, dont worry about it.
2007-03-08 14:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by aliqu2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must remeber these are fantasies. He obviosly likes/loves YOU if he's with you, there has to be some attraction there. Smut is a sign of fantasy not really wanting the "real" thing, I'm sure he would have it if he wanted it. Their magazines, at least he's faithful, right?!
2007-03-08 14:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by yeah_ok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and ask him what he finds attractive in those women . Some people have a "thing" for a certain caracteristic or object (called a fetish) and as long as it doesn't interfere with their life it's not a bad thing.
2007-03-08 14:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by jamlizard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be going through a phase, or you should just dump the bast ard. No true boyfriend should be thinking about other kinds of women beside u and his mom, or even his sister.
2007-03-08 14:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by abcw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it, every man has fantasies that doesn't mean that he's going to leave you for a Black woman or any woman.
2007-03-08 14:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If i found my b/f with dirty mags and movies I would ask him are u happy beaning with me
2007-03-08 14:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by francine4747 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and ask him why. then dump him if he says and he looks truly sorry. I'm sorry honey, from what I see in your question, he is a dirty porno loving guy. You deserve someone better than him.
2007-03-09 05:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by emaciated asian chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has the fever for a black gal. you want to be asking him the questions your asking the following. perhaps its only a myth and he gained't act on it, yet i visit understand if it makes you experience uncomfortable.
2016-12-05 10:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His curiosity is normal,its part of growing .
2007-03-08 14:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by siaosi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋