Ok I know this sounds like the most stupid question ever, but here goes. I gave a guy my number and he's all I can think about, he won't actually get the number till tomorrow(Friday), a lot of people are concerned/mad for/at me because he is 20 I am 16. my mom is fine with it as long as we aren't doing "it"(and yes I am a firm believer in abstinence). Now the weekend is creeping up on me and I’m worried about his call. What do I say, I really like him but become friends first? So what, have him call so I can ask if we can become friends? I’m SO confused. And the worst part...I can't talk to any of my peers about it cause they go off on this you should be careful don't do this do that BS. I can talk to mom about it, but it's not the same. I really need some advice.
2007-03-08 14:13:12 · 9 answers · asked by zippy7766 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He has my #, I don't have his.
2007-03-08 14:13:42 · update #1
uhoh, sweetie, there is a BIG difference in 16 and 20...not in age i mean, 4 years isnt that big of a deal, but mentally you're on compleatly different levels. Just be friends sweetie.
2007-03-08 14:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by S L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's interested, he'll call. Don't stress about it. I mean, he's 20, you're 16! Its not that bad. My friends parents are 16 years apart! Well.. Just talk to him like you'd talk to a friend. Don't ask him out, have him ask you. Don't make a move, let him. Ride on him to do everything first, unless you really think you should. Just play it cool and be normal! Don't stress.. I mean.. he's only a guy!
2007-03-08 14:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Caiti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a 20 year old goes out with a 16 year old would most likely wants to get in your pants. why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free.
2007-03-08 14:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was 20 there was a 15 year old girl who liked me, but wih her being a minor, I said no way. Personally, I think you should look for somebody your own age. Be prepared, this guy might just be out for sex.
2007-03-08 14:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it would be alright to talk to him and make sure you tell him you only want to be friends for now...you can still hang out and go to the movies without sex
2007-03-08 14:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it safe. He might be respectable and all but you never know these days. Be careful. And don't wrry about it too much. If he's for u things will run smoothly.
2007-03-08 14:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you care for the guy so tell him you guys can be friends because you're four years apart and if you guys ever do do anything then you guys get caught he goes to jail so i would spare the heart ache...
2007-03-08 14:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously know what could go wrong and have talked to people about it.
so if you still insist and he does call, just say your interested in getting to know him and find something in common you like to do.
2007-03-08 14:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have his number too..plus..20 is too old for u
2007-03-08 14:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋