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hi all, im a leo japanese girl, was having a long distance relationship with a sagittarius spanish guy whom i met 1 n a half yr ago in japan. We were madly in love even we were apart. he is a typical sagittarius.

We lived together in spain last summer. Were great. I returned to Jap in Sep meanwhile he started his new job. Since then he has been busy and confused with his feelings for me once in a while. We met again in Xmas and 07 new year. His confusion was gone and he found tat he really loved me. I came back to Japan in Jan. Things were good.

After my return, in early Feb he was confused again but he was sure that he didnt wanna lose me; we were planning to meet in Easter.

A few days later he broke up with me,coz he has lost his love feelings for me, n that he feels guilty that i treat him so nice.

I suggested to meet in Easter. He rejected to meet coz he wants to treat me like friend, but he is afraid that he cant when we meet.

2007-03-08 14:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Horoscopes

I dont know if i should still go to Spain in Easter to have a last try. As he is so Sagittarius, im afraid that if i dont see him now, things will be settled, he will just catergorize me as a friend, and then he'll never consider a relationship with me again, coz Sag people let things go so easily!

I wonder if his feelings will be back again when we meet, afterall sags are very passionate people. Can fire and spark arise if we meet again???? Maybe his feelings will be back if we have face-to-face contact? However im also worried tat i may look clingy if i insist on meeting. Sags dislike sticky people.... but passion and fire are possible?????.


so SHOULD I GO??????????? Is there any sag guys and gals or anyone who knows something about sags can help me?

2007-03-08 14:10:50 · update #1

7 answers

I truly believe long distance relationships don't work out great but it is truly up to you because you can clear up or make doubts. If you love him go on ahead or he may just be cheating on you and has another friend so he feels dismal. Well if you believe in astrology below here is an explanation of who they are, what they are.

Individuals born under this sign are thought to have a dynamic, clever, quick witted, intellectual, ethical, humorous, generous, open-hearted, compassionate, and energetic character, but one which is also prone to pridefulness, impulsiveness, impatience, impracticality, and blind optimism.Sagittarians are said to like traveling, getting to the heart of the matter, freedom, laws and meanings, and the general "feel" of things.Sagittarius was strongly associated with higher learning, philosophy, human progress, religion, and life hereafter.

2007-03-08 14:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by SeG 3 · 0 0

Well, I'm close to sag, being just a couple days away, however, let's put the horoscope thing aside at the moment.

I've felt the same as you before in long distance relationships. I absolutely know what you're going through, and the stress, and the hopefullness. It's like a roller coaster ride.

This advice is going to be difficult to take, but I'm keeping your best interests at heart. Let him go. There's more to this story than what you're seeing. I would take a guess that he's not being truthful with you. I've had the exact same thing happen, a guy gets a new job, and suddenly they are busy, and confused. There is someone else who's likely occupying his time. He's showing all the signs of someone who has found someone nearby, possibly at where he works. She's right there, available, and you were not.

He keeps saying you're too nice, he's confused, then he breaks up, it's definitely someone else.

My advice, go out with friends over Easter, party, have a good time, and do your best to forget about him. I know it'll hurt, and it'll be the hardest thing you've ever done, but one day, you'll heal. We're all here for you.

2007-03-08 22:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

This will help you Understand.


The sign Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter. Physically it is related to the pelvis, hips and thighs. It is said to have a masculine nature, and is therefore more active in its energy expression. As a Fire sign it is connected with the identity - specifically with the search to find a deeper meaning in human existence. It is therefore connected with religious and philosophical urges. As a Mutable sign, planets placed here express there energy in a flexible and changeable manner, with a certain restlessness or inconstancy.



Sagittarius in characterised by a love of truth and righteousness, and an unfortunate tendency to express it rather too directly, even when not asked. There is a love of open horizons and travel and a need to expand on an inner intellectual level. There is a pronounced urge to rise above the animal nature towards the divine, and an impatience with the trivial issues in life.


A dislike of superficiality may result in intolerance for the ordinary niceties between people. You are considerably inspired by nobility of the mind, and intellectual achievement. Your personal visions about the future can be very significant for the people you come into contact with. Some of the great turning points in your life come when you discover new mental frontiers which force you to discard old beliefs which you identified strongly with. You do have a tendency to pontificate about what you believe to be true. Experience shows, however, that you rarely stay in the same place as regards beliefs, and that truth is relative to your discoveries at any one time. Relationships would therefore benefit, if you were less forceful and argumentative and more open to the point of view of your partner. You may feel it is your duty to inform people of what you regard to be the truth, but experience will teach you that people listen best when you wait to be asked for your views.



Provided by elementals-astrology.co.uk

Symbol: Centaur
Ruler:Jupiter
Colour: Dark Blue, Purple
Metal: Tin
Gem: Topaz

2007-03-08 23:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by tfoley5000 7 · 0 0

Hi my strong, fierce, independent and loyal--Leo lady,
You and your Sag guy are the ultimate in compatibility according to your signs (I'm a Sag lady). Your relationship will be HOT! I believe the problem here is the distance. For any relationship and for most people, distance can be very difficult to overcome. I believe your Sag guy has a hard time with seeing you because he truly cares, however the distance does not appear to be something he can handle very well. He's told you how he feels. If you respect him, pls. listen to him and his last decision--to remain friends. THIS is the most important thing to any Sag--male or female--could ever want from you--your friendship. It means so much to us to have friends in our life. Down the road, you may be destined to meet again and wouldn't it be nice to have your friendship blossom into something even more amazing the second time around. Give him space, don't crowd him or you'll lose him. Be patient and kind to yourself--you deserve someone who's ready and available to have you in their life, now. Hope it's helpful.

2007-03-08 23:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 1 0

hi you poor galmy mans a sag and i'm a capricorn not a likely match i know but i have to admit it sounds kinda funny theres more to it than hes letting slip i would take the friendship and nothing else your just gonna keep getting hurt if you keep going back i'm sure your a very pretty gal and could do so much better if hes acting like this with you hes not worth it theres plenty guys out there dying to meet someone like you. show him how its done sagitarians hate defeat.

2007-03-08 23:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by lorraine mc 1 · 0 0

i kn. they are straight forward so if he says just friends he means just friends. Get over him and try to meet someone who appreciates u. The Sags. are great users too, in that charming way they have --makes u feel lucky they even notice u sometimes.

2007-03-08 22:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by luminous 7 · 0 0

I'm a Sagittarius guy...He is probably cheating on you if he feels like you treat him better than he treats you...He's telling you something there...and it's not good...His insistence that you be friends most likely indicates that he has met somebody that he cares about more than you...

2007-03-08 22:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 1 0

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