My ex gf lives with her parents at the age of 27. They are total religious whackos and have brainwashed her. She never had a chance to mature or seperate from them..and this is way unhealthy. She chose her parents and family over me time and time again, even though she knew they were unhealthy for her. I have given up on her and decided to move on. After she dumped me for like the 5th time, because she wanted to be at home with her family, I just said enough. Am I woring? Isnt this a little weird?
PS I did everything for this girl, I gave her such a nice life, spoiled her rotten, and only tried to help her and make her stronger. I feel like I have been used and thrown away like garbage!
2007-03-08 14:06:04 · 7 answers · asked by fuji 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You think religion is unhealthy for her????
I think she is living at home until she meets the right person. She is religious and has believed in God alot longer than shes known you. Perhaps she loves you but sees it won't work.
2007-03-08 14:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unnormal for a gurl to chose family over boyfriend. Tell her how u feel if she still stands the same it's her loss you sound like a nice guy there are other fish in the sea.
2007-03-08 22:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a one of the good guys. To me it seems like shes not ready for a relationship or hell even dating. You need to get her out of your mind move on and find someone that's better for you maybe someone little less religious. I'm sure you will find someone that's right for you.
2007-03-08 22:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Charli W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds like you were trying to buy her love, maybe her parents are unhealthy for her but you sounded possessive and tried to keep her from everyone
2007-03-08 22:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by iseemen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Until she realizes for herself what this life with her parents is doing to her, there is not much you can do.
2007-03-08 22:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has security with her family......did you offer her marriage and security?....it probably doesn't FEEL right to her to live with someone she is not married to...sin you know..
2007-03-08 22:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be if you put up with this garbage.
2007-03-08 22:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by rsinfante69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋