2007-03-08 14:03:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well cheating is always a difficult thing to contemplate. Why do some do it and others avoid at the risk of death. Statistics tell us that about 50% of all men have cheated and about 63% of all women, at some point during their life. I think that indicates human nature, not sin or weakness, so do what you want, but i don't ultimately think its the end of the world should either party have a little sex on the side.
Have fun..
2007-03-10 10:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking talking your your husband about how you are feeling about not having any sex.Some actions defiantly speak louder than words,and cheating on your husband is far from the right way to show him how you are feeling,you really need to let him know verbally.I hope that every thing works out well for you.Take care.
2007-03-08 14:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound synical but, I would start preparing for divorce. Any time that you are considering cheating on your husband then you two obviously don't have the bond necessary to last for both of your lives. I assume that you only got married for the hype and recognition of you friends and family. You should talk to him about it and try to explain what you feel. Is sex really something worth ruining your marriage over. If you really need sex that badly and he isn't giving it to you then you married the wrong guy.
2007-03-08 14:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why does your husband find you so disgusting? you know in the bible where it says if your husband leaves you aren't allowed to remarry and you have to wait until he comes back? do you know why that is there? it's because people will do things to drive another person away so guilt doesn't eat them up, they justify their actions. so to make sure you aren't driving him away just to justify your desire to cheat, take a long look at the way you are treating your husband. your husband may have a new squeeze anyway, and when he dumps you for another, you had better have some stuff on the side so you don't do without. it's like finding a job, when you got a job, you don't look desperate looking for another one, when you don't have one, you look really desperate and your chances of getting one and keeping your self respect diminish. as you can see, I am not trying to encourage you or discoourage you, just giving you insight.
2007-03-08 14:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a 3 sum with another women! That will get him in bed.
No seriously, talk with the husband let him know how you feel. Ask him if its you or if maybe he is cheating. Try family therapy or get out of the marriage.
Good Luck
2007-03-08 14:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by baby_thumper_girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not your fault, but did he tell you why? There are a few reasons that a man could do that. 1- he is cheating on you. 2- he does not like all the nagging that goes on. 3 - he wants you to clean yourself up and wear something nice. Maybe you could put some energy into finding out why he is doing this, instead of energy put into cheating on him. No matter why he is doing this, it is no reason for you to lower your standards and cheat on him - handle it like the wonderful person that you are, and you will find happiness.
2007-03-08 14:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best suggestion is dont cheat. Cheating gets you nowhere except a divorce and lots of guilt. Rather then cheat on him, talk to him, try to find out why he wont have sex with you. If you dont already, start masturbating to relieve you needs, buy yourself a toy and use it often.
2007-03-08 14:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it might be worth asking him why he doesn't want to have sex with you. It might be something simple that you can both work on and make it right. If he is a complete idiot and won't talk, tell him that you miss being touched and loved and that if he isn't interested maybe you should separate for a while so you can look for someone who wants you and will give you what you need. Don't go behind his back, try to resolve the root cause of the problem
2007-03-08 14:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I feel like you shouldn't cheat on him.
What is that going to prove?
Sit down with your husband and ask why he want have sex with you?
Cheating want solve anything.
2007-03-08 15:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the lines of communication and ask him what the problem is. Be sure to express how honesty is. By the same token, you should be honest about your plans to $#!t all over your wedding vows and become an adultress. That should get the conversation moving.
2007-03-08 14:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋