my mom tells me im beautiful, but i think im ugly, i dont know if shes lying just trying to make me feel better or shes telling the truth, how do i make myself feel better about me
2007-03-08 13:59:17 · 6 answers · asked by dramaqueen108 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I'm sure your mom is not lying. She sees the whole you. She doesn't compare you to the unrealistic people you see in magazines. We all put ourselves through needless torture by wishing we were thinner, bustier, less busty, more beautiful, etc....Learn to embrace what you have. I always got down on myself for being overweight. I can remember being in 4th grade and feeling fat. When I look back at pictures, I was as thin as anyone else and I wasted all that time wishing I were more thin. As an adult, I still see people torturing themselves. People who's legs I'd love to have, think their thighs are too big. Everyone is self conscience about something. Make a list of all your good points, both physical and non physical (and have your mom help you if you get stuck) and you'll see perhaps what your mom sees, and you'll see why she's not lying.
2007-03-08 14:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least your mom doesn't tell you that you don't look good in a bikini, you don't have a bikini body or that you're butt is too big!
I weigh 125 and am 5'5 .. excuse me for not being a bean pole!
I have lots of guys say I look good. I never have EVER have thought that I was. I always find ways to put myself down. Somedays though, just look in the mirror .. (naked or not!) LOL.. and just say.. I'm BEAUTIFUL! (you don't have to tell other people, just you!)
2007-03-08 22:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by ant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is self concious i get told i look good too but honestly im not n this really pretty girl in my school hates the way she looks beauty is individual and unquie and it takes confidence as long as yu think ur pretty everyone will think so to just dont get too stuck up
2007-03-08 22:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by lovergirll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think about what your good at some people say iam ugly and some people say iam cute but remember there is alway someone going to like you so dont worry about it too much just do what your good at like me iam 14 i can fix computer for peaces and rebuild engin that what iam good at and it make me feel better.
2007-03-08 22:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sexist but its just a chick thing
even if you they have 798797 friends they will find some non existent flaw with themselfs to B**** about
its the truth
2007-03-08 22:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by i love myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean, i'm dealing with the same thing or else similar. i'm thinking about getting a therapist its worth a try you know
2007-03-08 22:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by leena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋