Okay, Im not intelligent, Pretty, Athletic or the least bit popular, but i want to have what i see everyother girl around me haveing: confidence, they always look like they know what there doing when and why, and im just a mess.
2007-03-08 13:49:31 · 7 answers · asked by yawn 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
At least half of the girls who appear confident to you feel the same way you do. I recently told my brother that I have very low self-esteem and I need to boost my confidence and he said "you always appear so confident to me". You probably come across as being more confident than you are.
2007-03-08 13:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop with the self loathing already.if you dont love yourself,who will.
so be easy on yourself,give yourself credit for things you can do.
to gain more confidence do some things you thought you would or could never do,eg bunjee jumping,sky diving,take up boxing or something similar etc.
each new step you take and start succeeding at ,the more confident you will become.
say the good things out loud every day to reinforce them.
do not say you are not pretty,or intelligent or athletic
you may be a world champ at something you have not tried yet! you must have some nice features,no one is totally satisfied! as for intelligence,it takes many forms not just academic,you are probably very emotionally intelligent or intuitive,so put these to use.
popularity? dont rely on others to make you happy,or you will always feel disappointed and unhappy. be yourself.unique.
2007-03-08 22:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound stupid, but when you feel bad or confused, just thing the word "confidence" over and over again. Eventualy you'll just have a surge of confidence. It's been helping me a little. But try something new. Just think "Okay, relax. Confidence. Exhale. What do I want to do?"
2007-03-08 21:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by Knee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever a mess,just have to get out more,get to know know your self more,try every thing you can.Sports and things your not even sure of ,scuba driving ,horse back riding,when you find things your good at ,builds confidence and its just another way to know your self better.Your question is intelligent ,very well written,so you are wrong ,you are intelligent
2007-03-08 21:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by colliedogcody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look at recent pictures of Britney Spears and tell yourself, at leasted I'm not that fuckedup.
2007-03-08 21:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Practice loving yourself and everyone else.
Fear and love are opposites.
2007-03-08 21:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to believe you can do it.That's it.
2007-03-08 21:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋