My boyfriend of 16 years, we have 2 kids together, left me 2 and a half years ago. He met someone else and dated her for 1 and a half years. He broke up with her a year ago to come back to me. Well now a year later he has broken up with me again to be by himself for awhile. It has only been two months since we broke up, and he is back with her! Can you believe she took him back? If you were her, would you take a man back who just left his family again? Now I am here alone again! I don't mind being alone. I am just mad that I believed him, took him back. And now I am left to fend for myself again. I hate dating! Who was the bigger fool?
2007-03-08 13:45:58 · 4 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Fool is too strong a word.
We all make bad decisions in life.... sometimes we learn from them.... sometimes we make the same mistakes.....
it's what makes us human... that we are not perfect.
Now that you are a bit older, and a bit wiser... you will realize it's better to be alone than to be in a relationship that is not healthy for you....
Dating sucks.... for sure.... but I do believe in Karma, and the right person will find you.....
< peace >
2007-03-08 13:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, You could ask the same question, of Yourself. I don't think either of You are, Rocket Scientists. obviously, the BOY, is not mature enough to make a commitment, yet. You should both back off, allow Him to grow up and then, if You are both still interested, let Him make a FINAL choice.
2007-03-08 21:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by ny21tb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you ladies are about the same size fools - but you have the children and I hope that he is paying child support for them.
2007-03-08 21:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by happy_southernlady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both fools
2007-03-08 21:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by conan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋