Just today, I found out that my mom was adopted as an infant. My my mom died in a car accident when i was 8, and now i am 13, and i am completely shocked, that I wasn't told she was adopted. I know she died because I was told, but i had not known that she was adopted! I was online researching stuff, and i had just gotten bored, so I researched her name and there was a website for her, it is called like memorial of or something like that and the website was made by her biological parents. I am really shocked that my dad didn't tell me.
2007-03-08 13:20:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
What a blessing it must of been for your grandparents to have given your mom a loving home. Not all of our lives have to be out in the view of those we love. It makes no difference who gave birth it is the ones who loved her that matters.
Let it be a conversation w/your dad on a quiet day when he can fill in the blanks for you.
2007-03-08 13:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 10:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by husted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I don't know if that's really a bad thing but as long as she was happy with the parents who raised her than everything's alright.
2007-03-08 13:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by killer queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that your mom died. I found you, i went to the advanced searchd and typed, " my mom died" i founfd u, sorry.
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2007-03-11 13:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by babycakes_rocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... i'm sry that that yr mom died
but i personally would nawt care!!!! caz i love her and she has done sooo much to take care of me... and always supports me!!!!!! Even though i would b shocked... i would still love her
2007-03-08 13:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Lollie ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't care she's still my mom. That's interesting, though why didn't your dad tell you?
2007-03-08 13:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was adopted ..my children know & it's no big deal to them ...
2007-03-08 13:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Derby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your father? He probably has a good explanation.
2007-03-08 13:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by lifesbeautifulmelody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋