im gonna have sex for the first time im15 and he is 27 and i realy like him what should i do?

Answer 1

Dont do it. Trust me you will understand when your older. Tell your parents what he is trying to do to you. It is wrong, and illegal. I know lots girls do it that age but seriosly if he is 27 then he is a perv and probably going to really hurt you. Remember you will wish you didnt when your older.

Answer 2

Chances are that you'll do what you want anyway, no matter what anyone says, but I do feel I need to say this: My guess is that he's telling you all the things you want and like to hear. I'm willing to bet that he's been with a young girl before and knows exactly what to say.
There is a reason why a 27 year old guy goes out with young girls and that is that an older woman won't go for the same lines. Keep in mind too that for a guy, getting into bed with a virgin is like a trophy. They like the idea of "having been there first". It does something for their ego and it has nothing to do with him loving you. Think ahead, 2-3 years. He'll be out of your life then, but every time you see him in the future, you and he will know that he was there first. How will you feel when you then see him somewhere and he throws you a certain "look" as if to say: "yeah baby, I had your ***". It's not going to be pretty and you'll end up feeling dirty.
Like the other people above said... sleeping with a 15 year old is statutory rape and he can go to jail. Either he's too stupid to not realise that or he simply doesn't care, the case in which I'd ask you: do you really want to date a guy who has no respect for the law? ... and what exactly do you know about him? Has he been in jail before? What if you have an accident and get pregnant. Yes, it CAN happen.
I don't want to preach here, but a man who doesn't respect the law and who doesn't respect a girl enough to wait until she's out of school at least, is not a good choice for your "first time."

Answer 3

It sounds to me like you have already made up your mind in your question. i.e "I'm gonna have sex", so do you really want our opinion?
Because if you really want our opinion you would listen and wait to have sex. What the heck is a 27 yo doing with a 15 yo???? It is not right. I know what your response will be"i am very mature for my age".
Well that may be true but you are not mature enough to make adult decisions about your body yet. Trust me. i have been there and done that and i wished that i had waited.

Dont let anyone make you feel as though you should have sex. Your virginity is the one thing in this world that you cannot give away twice. Once you have done it you have done it and there is no turning back.

You may feel that you are in love but you wait until you get to his age and you will realise that it was not.
It makes me really wonder why he cannot get anyone around his age?? That is what makes me think that you are not really mature enough otherwise you would see that for yourself.

Dont look at these answers and think that people are not telling you what you want to hear because the truth of the matter is when you get all hot and steamy with him then you wont hear anything we have written and you will go for it. You start an engine and it is designed to drive all the way home!!

I would recommend if you really like this guy to talk to him and tell that would would like to wait to have sex until you are old enough. If he dumps you then you know exactly why he was around to start of with and you are lucky you never wasted your time with him. Meet in groups so you are not tempted.

Men at that age are liking young girls because they like to brag to there mates they have taken your virginity. Trust me you tell him you want to wait 3 years and i bet you any money he will dump you. Then you will know the truth.
If he says ok and waits 3 years for you then he is genuine but i doubt it as he will be 30 by then and will want it sooner of later.
Please be responsible men will ay all sorts of things to get you to sleep with them and then once you do it wont last.
Sorry that is just the majority of the world these days.
And yes it is against the law for him to want to have sex with you regardless of if it is conscential or not

Answer 4

Woah!!!! First of all, that's statutory rape right there. Also, that's too much of an age difference. I mean really, what are the chances that he's going to go for someone 12 years younger without ulterior motives, a.k.a. pressuring you to have sex when fifteen is pretty young for a first time anyway?

Answer 5

NO! I was in this situation a bit back.. And trust me.. No matter how much you think that you really like him, and he says that he likes you too.... HE'S 27!!! ( no offence) but what does a 27 year old want with a teenager?

Just think hunny! This guy is a creep!

I bet that you can find SO MUCH BETTER than a creep!

Answer 6

A 27 yr old should not have sex with a 15 yr old. He is taking advantage of you and it is not legal.

Answer 7

Although what the people say above me is logical, its really up to you. There are some pressing questions like how long youve been dating him and stuff like that. I'd at least wait until I was completely sure I was in love with him and he was in love with me. Sex without love is just sex; a cheap thrill. We're female, emotional. Dont let him hurt you, dont feel pressured, and if you do do things, make sure to use protection. I know how you feel, my boyfriend is older than me too, and things were just scary at first. If you ever need someone to just talk to, my email is [e-mail]

Answer 8

DONT DO IT. youre still young, live your life right now and have fun, wait for sex .. plus he is 12 years older, and will go to jail for this.. if you really want him to do you wait 3 years then you will be legal.but dont do it! be really careful cuz it can end up in rape or him FORCING you into doing things.
if you relly do make sure you wear a condom and he does!

Answer 9

That is statutory rape, he is way too old for you. He shouldn't even be talking to a 15 year old about such things. He needs to be locked up. He is just trying to take advantage of you. Please wait for someone that really cares about you before deciding to have sex.

Answer 10

I think the person you are going to have sex with is a pervert. You 'll find out when you are older that you made a big mistake.