So I've been with my gf (age 25) for over a year now. We used to have sex at least 2-3 times a week. However, the last time we had sex was last early November. At first, I just thought that we kind of stopped having sex because we both were really busy and stressed out. For her, she is attmepting to earn two degrees, applying to pharmacy school, part-time managing a family owned business and two jobs. For me, I'm in the process of working on two degrees and applying to medical school. But as reality hit me, through all of that busy schedule we have, we also have some free time as well in which we just stay home and lounge around (aside from going out for the night). She wants a future with me & loves me.When I began hinting about sex, she just laughs and think I'm silly. I try to play around and start foreplay but she seems reluctant and tells me "Be good now." I finally confronted her about this and she got mad, frustrated at me and became sad. She told me i shouldnt push her.
2007-03-08 13:11:40 · 11 answers · asked by kisskissbangbang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
congratz.....your the father to a kid thats not yours
2007-03-08 13:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stress is a big reason you probably aren't having sex. Another reason might be she's tired of doing the same old things. Try something new. Play hookie for a day and take her out. Or, leave a trail of rose petals leading to the bathroom where a warm bubble bath and a masage is waiting. Setting the mood is VERY important. I know guys don't like to do that but trust me...if you do something for her, she'll do that special something for you.
2007-03-08 13:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by alfeebester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hinting about sex isn't what women want. They want a little romance and then some foreplay. Take the time required to do it right. I know it's hard to do for a man, but it will be worth it for both of you when you give her the best 2 minutes of her life.
2007-03-08 13:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Toeless_Joe_Jackson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 month is an prolonged time for an lively couple to no longer have intercourse. i think of she could the two be hiding something or she's purely relatively that under pressure out. Has she won weight? possibly shes self concious becuase of it if she has. i for my section dont know. Sorry.
2016-12-18 18:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break the news to you bro, but these are all signs of her getting it from some one else. You need to find you someone who can show you the love you need. I think that your gf is cheating on you and you dont even know it. Maybe you should turn gay... lol,. Just kiddin.... :) Although us gay guys have a great time, women are just kind of a bore!!!!!! lol,
2007-03-08 13:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by se3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she has fallen out of love for you. Sorry to hear that but girls will stay in bad relationships for months until they find that next branch to grab on to.
If you were smart you'd just bail on the relationship, its not going to change.
2007-03-08 13:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by mike Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and her should cuddle on a couch or bed and watch a regular (non-porn) movie that has a really good sex scene in it and maybe kiss her while that part is showing and her being close to you while watchin' that scene might give her some ideas...
2007-03-08 16:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by *Gina* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't even imagine having both of your schedules, I would be exhausted also, just be patient and let it slide for awhile. It will work out in time, if it's meant to be.......... Good Luck!
2007-03-08 13:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm alright well maybe right now shes trying to be good for schoo land such. i dont know that to say really, maybe once or twice a week try to mess around but when she says stop... it would be a good idea to stop if you love her...
2007-03-08 13:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by sr438 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is worried about becoming pregnant and doesnt want to take any chances of something happening now to reck her chances to achieve her current goals. just a thought. maybe she should tell you that. good luck.
2007-03-08 13:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she got bored of your lame old moves
2007-03-08 13:38:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋