i am in a jazz club at school and i want to quit. its not that i dont like it, its just i have too many other things to do right now. my conductor has put me on a major guilt trip (as he so often does) and i want to know if i am wrong to want to quit despite how much he sais the group needs me.
2007-03-08 13:10:05 · 6 answers · asked by BLAH! 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
As a Mom, I do not like the attitude of your soon-to-be former conductor. He should be an adult and realize there are many choices in life and you are in the best position to know your own circumstances. People just act this way because they take it personally. They will carry on without you. You will have opportunities to enjoy jazz all your life, you can even join a group when you are a grandmother! Share your feelings with a parent or another caring adult, I'm sure you can find support! In fact, you are acting very mature to realize it is time to make a choice. Take care!
2007-03-09 01:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not forced into being in the club, so you can leave it by no means. How dare your conductor take you on a guilt trip! It's YOUR decision... Do what you want, but in a respectful manner... Make sure you explain why =)
2007-03-08 13:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 10:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by husted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never quit stuff like that. I just stuck with it. Sure it's hard to balance everything, but you'll get through it. Plus, when you have to fill out applications for schools or scholarships, you can put the activities down and it will look really good.
2007-03-08 13:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by xoerika 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yess. I kinda quit yearbook and my homeroom teacher is the yearbook adviser and made me feel so guilty, but like you I have to many other things to do. You should prioritize (sp?) school, family, fun first!
2007-03-08 13:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think is right. do what you enjoy best. i have quit a club and felt quilty, but i got over it soon
2007-03-08 13:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by cutensassy661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋