My husbands little feelers are hurt over the fact that he does not feel I initiate it as often as he would like, and when I think about it he is right I would feel like something was wrong if he didn't as much as he does. So what is the best way for a chick to initiate? What works best at making them feel wanted?
2007-03-08 13:06:50 · 12 answers · asked by truluvbug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do they really care how?
2007-03-08 13:13:32 · update #1
Does not take much. just about anything. What is different that you want to do. Couch tub or? Make snacks for when you watch a movie together and start playing with him some. Make a bath for the two of you or invite him to shower with you. Go to bed in something sexy or not and climb on top of him and start getting him intrested some how. While you are out just play with him a little on the drive home and then make your way to bed or? Just lead him to what ever you heard about and want to try.
2007-03-08 13:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something that feels natural and comfortable to you, he will sense you are trying to be seductive and aren't very good at it and will ruin the moment. go out and wash the car in a pair of short shorts with you *** hanging out. remember , he likes you the way you are or he wouldn't have followed you around like a puppy. stick with what is working and you will do fine. don't try to behave in a manner that is unnatural to you. if you wanna be sexy, be that way because you feel it, not because you want more attention from him. remember to act like a nymph in the bed and a saint in public.
2007-03-08 21:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH try this! Put on a pair of high heels, a sexy piece of jewelry like a belly chain or long necklace, do you makeup and hair and parade out to him wearing only that! trust me it will start something...and I am pretty sure you know where to go from there.....if not try a BJ that nearly always works.
2007-03-08 21:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by giving him a very passionate kiss before bed and that always leads into more. If he has not already started something you should try. Wake him up after he has fallen asleep for the night. That is sure to surprise him
2007-03-08 21:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by jenny b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt really take much trust me...a little peck on the neck works for most men...subtle moves like, getting ready for bed early one night, putting on a hot teddy for bedtime rather than the usually jammas with bunny feet...tell hubby to come n scare away the mean monster living under your bed, when he gets in the room, growl and say come and get me...anything you do darlin will work, trust me~~
2007-03-08 21:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really simple, just start unbuttoning something, on you, or on him. It will work every time. Romantic meals, candles are nice, but usually for the woman's mood. For him, just put your arms around him and KISS him deeply. Or, my wife will say, "Comeer!" (Come here!)
2007-03-08 21:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initiate occassionally...he will appreciate it more..however, initiate all the time will make him want it less because there is no challenge to get you to do it anymore.
2007-03-08 21:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt like crazy with him. Do something that you know will turn him on.
I'm not going to go into great detail here--use your imagination and have fun!
2007-03-08 21:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt heavily or i just tell my husband straight that i want some for the night.
2007-03-08 21:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply say.. "u have a choice, u can remove ur clothes or i can rip them off of u, ur choice" lol..
2007-03-08 21:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋