Seconed chance, or no way!?

Question

I have this friend, and I wrote an email to this girl that we totaly hate, telling her that we totally hate her. My friend got really mad becuase I said "we", and I should have just spoked for myself. She didn't want this girl to know that she hates her. I know what I did was wrong, and I have told her that, but there have been other incidents, where she has gotten really mad at me, and she says that she's tired of giving me seconed chances, and she says she's tired of it. It's coming between other friendships, because we share the same friends, and they don't know who to hang out with. There are five of us including me and her. I don't know what to do and I'm really confused. I can't see clearly right now because I'm in the middle of all of it. Is there anything that I can do to make her belive that I wont need another seconed chance? And if not, what about the major problem of our other friends?

Answer 1

first you shouldnt assume just cause ur friends that you like and dislike the same ppl.... n yeah writin that mail on her behalf too wasnt rite but im sure u meant well.. neways u shouldnt have to make ppl choose between u or ur friend...and it seems like she controls u.. i mean if u feel wat ur doin and sayin is right by you why do u even need second chances.. stand ur ground and yeah state ur opinions biut whoever but do it urself dont involve ppl....why do u need to be with a group of ppl that cant even be sure of who they trust and have faith in..... ??? this is really for u to sort out.... and u should on ur own.....good luck !

Answer 2

First of all, why would you ever tell someone you hate them? What did she do to you? Maybe you shouldn't send horrible emails to try and hurt someone. How would you feel?

Do what is right in your heart every day. Be kind! Do things you will not live to regret. Be true! Then you won't have to ask others how to dig your self out of a mess like this.

If your friend is tired of giving you second chances, then you must be repeating the same type of behavior.

You have apologized, now learn from your mistakes.

Answer 3

So you decided you hate someone..WHY if they don't dress or act in the way you like does that give you the right to send them such a nasty message. Can you step back and think for one minuet how you would feel to receive such a nasty message. We are all different and should be respected as such and if you really don't like someone KEEP AWAY from them. No wonder your friend is so upset with you. Its one thing to say such things in secret to each other but, what you have done its a totaly different matter. You have a LOT of grovelling to do, and even more growing up. So get on with it....

Answer 4

i think that you should just stick with your friends you have now even if this other girl come along. I know it will be Awkward but you will both work threw it. I have a friend with the smae problem and when they are together they sort of just act as tough they get along, so yeah i think you should just sit tight and mabye try to talk to your friend and work out your differences and tell her to mabye explain whats annoying her so and then try not to do that any more, but at the same time tell her what she does that annoys you so that you can mabye all get on better.

Answer 5

you shouldnt have written the email in the first place, you knew it would cause something bad. even if the girl you hate doesnt get bothered by it

Answer 6

EASY JUST GO TO THIS GIRL WHEN THE MOMENTS RIGHT AND TELL HER HEY I JUST LEARNED A GREAT THING IN CHURCH,, AND I WANT TO SHARE IT WITH YOU TO LOVE JESUS AND I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND SEE YA LATERS, THEN KEEP BUSY TO SEE IN A FEW WEEKS IF SHE COMES RUNNING BACK,, SOMETIMES STRAIGHT UP LOVE OVER FEARS CAN BE POWERFUL,, GOOD LUCK

Answer 7

use your spell check,, please.
try not to hold anger towards anyone,, ever,, for any reason.