ive tried and tried 2 get along with my race but they dont like me only 3 of them!I generally get along with black people VERY well but not any others!im very friendly with them but they are mean as crap 2 me is this strange?
2007-03-08 12:06:57 · 14 answers · asked by wamzy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
i never thought of the skin color till they said "why do you hang with those stupid black people"they really tick me off!!!!!!
2007-03-08 12:16:57 · update #1
i never thought skin color mattered and i still dont!
2007-03-08 12:18:44 · update #2
now you know how it goes, you're either for them or against them. no moe be in the middle. they call you n**** lover, right.
thats the way it is, some things never change. no seriously,you could be a reincarnate black person in a white body.
2007-03-12 14:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by LENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not strange at all, I was like that growing up. As long as your're true to yourself, dont worry about what people say. Skin color should not matter, don't let ignorant people try to change you.
2007-03-12 18:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 22:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by didden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're only talking about a few people, then they are probably not representative of a whole race. How many do you mean? Try to make friends with other people.
2007-03-08 12:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only strange if you think so. My loving boyfriend whom I'm considering marrying one day is of a different race than me and I have no problem with it. You connect with people because they attract your fancy and because you have things in common with them. Don't let color be a driving force in your relationships; it simply is too superficial.
2007-03-15 13:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by nana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. I would just hang around people who get along with you and those that you get along with. I don't look at the skin color. I just hang around people who make me happy.
2007-03-08 12:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to stay away from racist people, its just might happen that the white people you know (not all of them) just were racist. You sound like a very nice person, just be yourself and ignore those people.
2007-03-08 12:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. that kind of thing happens to everyone, race has nothing to do with it. there will always be people belonging to the same race as you who dont like you. these people obviously dont like you and i doubt there is anything you can do to change their minds. please get over it and try making friends with other races because you really sound like you need to.
2007-03-08 12:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by nekomimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling inferior for some reason. when you say they are mean to you, you are saying you are trying to be friends with the wrong kind of person.
2007-03-15 05:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends are saying that about you hanging with black people then i suggest you get new friends.
2007-03-08 12:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by puzzlite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋