To old to live with mother?

Question

Do you think a 41 year old man is to old to live with his mother? He does not have to pay rent. And maybe pays $200.00 or less for food and things. And she is involved in his life way to much. That is my ex. He listens to every controlling thing she says. She talks bad about myself and him to our children. He does nothing. I have my own home, take care of our 3 kids, have responsibiliy. Don't you think a man that age should at least try to get his own place? And ladies, would you date a man who still lived with his mother at that age?

Answer 1

His mom has already dun the damage your not going to fix it so forget about it, let him stay with Mommy

I never bad mouth my ex or his family, but man thy did me to my son,(so I know how your feeling) as my son got older the less and less he want to have anything to do with them because of that.

Don't let it upset you for that is just there game don't fall into it, there unhappy so thy want you to be unhappy too.
and what better way to get to you is to use your kids.

would i date a 41 year old mouse , nope!


my rules for dating someone.
1. must not be marred
2. must not live with parent
3. must have his own car
4. must have a job for at lest the last 5 years
5 .must have good hygiene's

Answer 2

It depends. You say he is your ex. Did you take the family home and does he pay you alimony or child support? He's probably broke. If he can't afford another home after all his debts are paid, perhaps the only choice he has is to live with a family member. Just a thought. You have to take all things into consideration.

Answer 3

Unless his mother is sick and needed the help, I see no reason for any person to be living with a parent. I would never date any man who still lived with his parents unless there was an extremely good reason for it.

Answer 4

I dunno if I could date a 41 year old guy. That's 10 years older than me, and it seems like ages of difference...

Now, a guy like that is a loser, as simple as that. Forget about him and go on with your life! of course he should find his own place! I still live with my mom, but I pay for about 80% of my house's expenses, help my mom with her medicines...I live with her because I can't leave her alone, and I would never take advantage of her, I didn't do it even when I didn't have a job...it all depends on the circumstances...

But please, don't even look at that guy again, it's not worth it. Even if he were the father of your kids, he's just not worth it.

Believe me, my dad is a guy like that. He is not worth it.

Answer 5

The only way I would date a man that age who was still living with his mother, is if his mother is ailing and he is there to help her. But if he's just being a mooch, then no...that's hardly attractive to me...

Answer 6

In particular international places, like India and Africa, prolonged households are favourite and extremely pleasing. in this know they are extra useful that the Western international the position we assume of it truly is ideal to positioned our older human beings in houses and allow unmarried mum and dad conflict for an independant existence. go back and forth, they say, broadens the options, so get on your motorbike and seem further than the suited of your street before making inane statements!

Answer 7

Yes, 41 is too old to not have his own place.

Answer 8

I'm going to be 44 and i want my mama to live with me...But hey she doesn't get into my business like you ex's mother...I wouldn't date a male that has that much connection with his mom, letting her control everything...Seems to me like ex needs to go up and move out on his own...

Answer 9

Absolutely not! Unless his mother was crippled and he was taking care of her a red flag would go up.

Answer 10

He is a 'mummys boy'.That is just ridiculous still living with his mum at that age.You are well rid of him!! I would never date someone like that.