2007-03-08 11:33:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
About 15 minutes into the question and I am loving the answers, thanks. Do you think it is truly possible to separate the act of sex and the feeling of love?
2007-03-08 11:52:17 · update #1
So far so good, but do you think I should stop thinking this way? How could I ever approach the subject?
2007-03-08 12:09:39 · update #2
Am I alone here?
2007-03-08 12:25:52 · update #3
About 30 minutes into the question and the answers are really great. Please do not stop. Most people so far have touched on some truth so far. For example I am a little jealous but I have that under control however, I also do have curiosities about other men. But my true motivation in this is that I love my girlfriend, andshe loves pleasure.
2007-03-08 12:31:53 · update #4
when i was in my teens the thought did not arouse me but it happened to me with 5 different girlfriends after i got married the fantasy started i could see her in bed with lovers while i was at work i started to read stories about cheating wives and what excited me was the husband not knowing . i started reading some of those to her and she enjoyed them also we finally made the fantasy into reality and i love her more each day . oh yes the answer is you were born to be cuckolded and to enjoy it
2007-03-08 12:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's biological. For example, studies have shown that when a man is away from is wife for extended period of time his sperm count increase. The reason being is so when he returns he can flush her vagina from the sperm of anyone she might have had sex with during his absence.
This is the same here. When you think of your girl boinking someone else, your body is programmed to produce more sperm and testosterone levels increase so that your sperm will replace the previous lovers' sperm in the vagina. That's why you are getting aroused. That's why you can be jealous and still have great sex at the same time. It's self perpetuating.
It's purely biological. Works for women as well. A women will experience more orgasms with a suitable mate than she would with someone that is not considered a suitable mate. When a woman has an orgasm, the contractions of her vagina actually bring the sperm towards the egg. If the mate is less than desirable her body will less likely orgasm. That's why women can have sex with a man and it mean absolutely nothing. There is no biological response in a woman if she has meaningless sex. I could go on....
2007-03-08 19:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people tend towards voyeurism. it is a fantasy. you want to see her doing things from a different perspective than you normally do. Since the path you are going down can sometimes lead to breakups. Try filming the two of you and then watching it later... could possibly solve your fantasy and yet keep your relationship
2007-03-08 19:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do guys like porn? We love to watch, its a new angle on sex with ure GF. its a turn on, it would be fun to watch her have sex from a new point of veiw, however it probly wouldnt end well for you in the long so keep those fanties to yourself and go get a klen-X and wipe the spearm of ure hands ;)
2007-03-08 19:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Curiousity
2007-03-08 19:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by heidifrybarger 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but I get aroused when I think of my boyfriend with another woman and I really want him to but he won't ,I wish he would, I take him to strip clubs and that turns me on.Human nature fantasy I guess.erotic
2007-03-08 19:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because she won't be your girlfriend very long if you keep thinking like that. Your fantasy will then become a reality.
2007-03-08 19:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tom-PG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called a fantasy, as such it is something people may enjoy thinking about but would not or could not, ever participate in.
2007-03-08 19:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are into that. Doesn't mean your strange. If you were making her sleep with other men against her will.. THAT would be not only strange... But F-ed up. Just be careful
2007-03-08 19:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by dralls4lyf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're probably a closet voyeur and you could have self esteem issues.
2007-03-08 20:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋