Two part question..You know the saying, the one you love most, you treat the worst!!?

Question

Why is that true for some people? They say they love you, they want you in their lives..You love them back and give them all..And they treat you like dirt..Why??
And why can't we just let them go from our lives??
If we would walk away they probably wouldn't care..So why can't we just walk away from those that hurt us so much emotionally??
Are we just stupid??

Answer 1

i did this to my bestfriend, and ex-boyfriend. i treated them badly but i didnt notice it until they were gone. and yea, they did ask me to stop but i just blew it off. if they are treating you bad then just give them a little space, dont leave them though. they'll realize how much they need you and come running back, changed in a good way, and ready to start over =) i guess we are just stupid haha

Answer 2

Yeah, sometimes we just are that stupid. We don't always really know or accept when we should just walk away....maybe it's because we need to get hurt more or we refuse to accept that they have a flaw since we love them.
Sometimes the person we love the most is just not good for us. You'll always love that person, they will always hold a place in your heart even if you do walk away. But know this, after you walk away you will meet someone else that is worthy of your love, time and attention and will love you in return...Be strong.

Answer 3

We are not stupid, we are one of the finest creations of God. Yet we are flawed.

The saying "One you Love the Most, You Treat the Worst" is correct for several reasons.

1. When we are hurt.
2. Some Misunderstanding
3. Mistrust
4. Lack of return
5. Jealousy
6. Taken granted
7. Undervalued or Discounted

Otherwise, no loved one can hurt his/her loved one. Yes, when we are loved unconditionally, it clouds our thought process with an imaginary sense of security.

But when the hurt person who loved us unconditionally moves on, we repent like no one other. One cant ensure that he/she will get same Unconditional love again in life or not? Probably not because it was not respected at first place.

Don't worry, if theres something similar in your life, convey it straight if u r hurt for something, talking your concern is the first step towards its being solved. If he/she doesn't listen, be compassionate and caring and look for your future, dont fee bad if someone doesn't care.

Its simple, "Either they are undervaluing us or Overvaluing themselves " and you know Time corrects everybody.

Answer 4

you treat them the worst because there the closest to you while everyone else is far away. example if i get a bad phone and ma girl right there im go take it out on her...