What should I say?!?

Question

I know I might sound really dumb right now but whatever...people that I just see like around school always call me anorexic girl...but I'm really not I eat a lot but just burn my calories fast...I really have nothing better to say than shut up...sometimes I really don't care but on a daily basis it gets really annoying...I have really low self esteem and yeah...what should I tell them?!

Answer 1

This might sound really mean and I dont have a problem with any kind of shape in people but this might shut them up.
" Would you shut up? I eat just as much as you, I just dont get as fat as you. "
That would probably be something I would say if I was really skinny but I'm not.

Answer 2

Everyone here is right, these people who call u that are jealous of u. i used to think that of this one girl at my school who was pretty skinny, but the truth is that i was just being really jealous of her. now, if someone else calls u this again, then pretend that u didn't hear a word they said. Believe me, it takes all the fun out of it for them when the person they've just insulted didn't even hear the insult. don't let them upset u. the more upset u get when they kid u, the more they'll do it. if they still call u this, then give them the look like ur confused or "wow! ur wierd". Being sarcastic is a big slap in the face to the peopel who are making the fun. It's like "that joke was so lame it didn't even come close to bothering me." instead it jsut makes them look pretty stupid.

and i hope ur self esteem goes up soon! just kno that while all these people are making fun of u for ur size, they all secretly want to have ur size. if their own self esteem with their body was alright, then they wouldn't feel the need to have some else's body instead of their own. I kno this from personal experience. I've been the person who was talking about the skinny girl, but i had to realize that i was only doing that because i wished I WAS the skinny girl. i hope i helped u in getting some perspective from the other side of the teasing.

Good luck and PLEASE don't let these little heifers get ur self esteem down!! lol. (=

Answer 3

Jealousy is a curse. Its sounds like these people are envious of your metabolism and figure. It does get depressing after a while. Whatever happened to ignore and it goes away? You really shouldn't have to say anything. Maybe work on your esteem levels a bit so that it does not impact you as much. It will do nothing for you to retaliate against their criticisms and envy. You are better than that and it will get neither you or them anywhere. I wish you all the best of luck, it is just a stage of life that everyone goes through. You are just admitting that these remarks make you insecure. These others, they are in denial about their insecurities and will probably end up living with them for the rest of their lives.

Answer 4

I hate when people make comments about others weight. I think its rude, and they have no business making such comments. To deal with the kids who call you that, the shut up won't cut it. If they are your friends calling you this, simply tell them not to call you that because you would never make comments about their weight. If its kids you don't know, chalk it up to them being insecure about something they don't like about themselves so they feel the need to make character attacks on others. I would tell them, thanks for noticing, but I eat plenty and am happy with the way I look and just smile. As far as your self esteem, you need a boost of good self esteem. I would suggest volunteering in your community. It can be very self rewarding while helping others in need. All the best.

Answer 5

I know exactly how you feel, I am constantly having people point out my weight and tell me that I need to eat at a buffet more often, or "get bigger." Most people say they would love these comments, but I disagree, sometimes it goes too far. When others start to scutinize I just stare at them a bit confused.

Me: "Considering my height I'm a healthy weight, and I'm happy with that."
Some1Else: "You look like a toothpick, it's not normal, it's awful."
Me: " I don't see anything wrong with the way I am."
Some1Else: "You must be anorexic, or bulemic."
Me: :( *Sad*

Anyway, as long as your happy with the way you are, then their opinion won't make a diffrence. Don't let them get you down, because eventually it won't seem like anything more than a blessing.

Answer 6

Just eat a big bag of chips in front of them and say "There! Do you you think I'm anorexic now B****?!?" laugh it off with them and be done with it. Laughter is the best cure for confrontation. Good luck.

Answer 7

No you do not sound dumb.Well as long as you know its not true then don't worry about it.You don't have to say anything but walk away or ignore them because if you ignore them they start to stop because you are not paying them any attention.Or you can say:you must be really sad if you have to say something about me to make yourself feel better.

Answer 8

honey you know your not anorexic. when they say negative things you thank of all the great things about your self more than likely their just jealous. time will prove your not anorexic and in ten years they will have to worry about how mean they was. i would not bring myself to there level. be your best and don't worry about them.

Answer 9

don't worry about it. im also a slim girl. very as the matter of fact. i am 14 years old and i weigh about 84 lbs. not much when everybody else in your school is like 100 something lbs. just ignore them. they must be pretty stupid.

Answer 10

First of all they call u that beacuse they are jealous of your thin physic and you shouldnt worry about what they think because by looking at u they just get jealous because they want to be thin too=]]