Follow up on Lazy wife question...you people don't understand?

Question

I just posted a question about dealing with some problems with my wife, and a FEW of you people took what I was saying wrong..VERY WRONG!

I think I hit a nerve or something, but some of you need to get real and understand a man's role and a woman role in the hom!

that's ALL I have to say!

Answer 1

We didn't take your last question wrong... we knew exactly what you meant.

If you're going for the traditional, old fashioned, men's role and women's roles... then YOU should be the one working and bringing home the money, while your wife stays home and cleans, cooks, etc.

If you want the roles in the home to be as they were in the 50's then look back and see that all the roles were the way they were because the woman stayed home, didn't work and took care of the house and kids.

You are one messed up dude.

Answer 2

Sorry I didn't read your first question!
My understanding of what men's roles and what women's roles are in a marriage is that they are whatever that particular couple decides that they are. Judging by the title of your question, you feel that you have a "lazy wife". Communication is paramount in a marriage, and if you are communicating these feelings to your wife, she may be rebelling. I know for a fact that if my husband said I was lazy and didn't like the way I was keeping house, I'd totally stop and tell him to do it himself. But then, I no longer work outside of the home.
If your wife also has a job outside of the home, then she is doing double duty and needs your help carrying the extra load. It is not written in stone that housework is women's work, unless that is how the two of you had originally divided up the household chores; which is what my husband and I did: inside is for me, outside is for him.
When I had another full time job, however, he helped with the vaccuming, etc.
So, think twice about what your wife might be going through. She might not be lazy, she might be over worked.

Ok, forget all that, I went and read your original question because I was intrigued by other answers you received. You have got to be kidding. I don't believe you even wasted your time asking it, or that I wasted my time writing this.

Answer 3

i agree with you if you guys made that decision before moving in togethor. I did. He works and I take care of the house and children.If I worked instead then we wouldd be sharing the duties. People don't have to re-evaluate roles, you need to understand many people are different. Try to see it from their side. I f some woman was saying rude things about a mans' role like paying for everything and etc. then you woul lash out also.

Answer 4

We did not take your very last question incorrect... we knew precisely what you meant. once you're going for the classic, previous formed, adult males's function and females individuals's roles... then you definately may be the only operating and bringing living house the money, even as your spouse continues to be living house and cleans, cooks, etc. in case you want the jobs contained in the living house to be as they were contained in the 50's then look again and see that each and each one the jobs were the way they were because the female stayed living house, did not artwork and took care of the living house and babies. you're one snarled dude.

Answer 5

I read your earlier questions. You, my friend, are a first-class jerk. You cannot clean and cook because it will damage your esteem and you don't know how? You are a girlie idiot. Anyone in grade school knows how to cook and clean. I did. And you had a job at a convenience store and had to quit to make a point? You barely deserve to suck air.

I recommend you divorce your poor wife to give her a chance at happiness and go live with your mommy. You are worthy of nothing better.
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Answer 6

I went back and read your previous questions...I didn't answer any of them , but from first impressions you really do sound like a chauvinist pig. Could care less, cuz I have a good man to help with all of the household duties. So carry on there big guy!
that ALL I have to say!

Answer 7

A man's role and a woman's role is to be an equal partnership on all fronts, including housekeeping and the like.

Answer 8

it sounds like to me that SHE has a JOB and YOU DO NOT... so get off your lazy a*s and do some house work since your wife is supporting you...

so let me get this straight... your wife work in an office and you was a bag boy or whatever... your wife was the one to stoop that low and wreck her self esteem to have married a lazy BUM like YOU!!! if she was smart she would kick your out of work lazy a*s out of the house

Answer 9

I'm sorry for you if you have a lazy wife. Does she get to stay home? If so- she should be pulling her weight around the house while you go slay dragons at work.

The femnazis have really ruined a good thing (home life/traditional roles).

Answer 10

I think the home chores should be shared equally if both of
you work. If not, one that stays home is responsible of the
upkeep of the home, plus tending to the children.