been married 28 yrs
2007-03-08 11:13:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she has recently gotten new hair style, new clothes, new perfume; new underwear......those are the tell tale signs; unless her hair was awry, her clothes were old, her perfume stunk and her underwear was ratty, then she just needed them
2007-03-08 11:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, [I'm a woman] send her flowers, and most women need to talk, and be noticed- well anyway have the flowers [roses] arrive at the door, just for no reason, any female likes that. Tell her [nicely] that she's acting differently lately, and after 28 years you think you deserve an honest reply. Don't worry though, i think every married woman has at least thought about it. Ask her what you 2 can do to spice your marraige life up--go on vacation, re-decorate or anything? Wives love going out for dinner and shopping, or has she wanted to move for years now and you wouldn't?
good luck, and don't be paranoid, its probably not what you think.
2007-03-08 19:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does she look you in the eye?
Does she touch you, seek your touch?
Good communication?
Does she want to go places with you?
Is she preoccupied with something else? What? Does she call you when she reaches her destination or while there?
Are you both happy and good to each other and should she have a reason to leave??
You know fingers are magical and kissing works!
2007-03-08 19:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's just thinking about it there's no way you can tell. You're not a mind-reader.
Sounds like your marriage has hit a rocky patch. A little counseling for both or either one of you might go a long ways.
2007-03-08 19:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a good long whiff of her "thang". If you are a beast like me, you will be able to detect a scent that is slightly unusual, a little bit off. You'll know as soon as you smell it.
I'm all about smells, people should learn to tap into this powerful source of information.
2007-03-08 19:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you think she is cheating? Or thinking about it? Thank goodness nobody can know what other people are thinking.
2007-03-08 19:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check her cell phone. See who she's been talking to. As far as the 'thinking' thing goes, you cannot be the 'mind' police. It's the act that would be worse.
2007-03-08 19:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you probably can't until it happens already, when a person is gonna cheat they will if they cannot satisfy thier needs.
2007-03-08 22:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey only your eyes or ears will tell you that, we can't! Nothin else is crediable.
2007-03-08 19:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by WOW U all make me feel normal! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well have you given her a reason to cheat?
2007-03-08 19:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋