2007-03-08 11:06:06 · 15 answers · asked by jonp1978 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Additional Details: Both never married, she was a virgin when we met 2 years ago, we're undecided if we want kids or not, we're both trying to start a career...
2007-03-08 11:11:39 · update #1
Depends.
If you'd said a 19 yr old female and a 13 yr old male..........DANGER
If you reverse that, 19 yr male and 13 yr female .......Still DANGER
So, reverse the original question, would anyone bat an eye at a 29yr old male datiing, (or even marrying) a 23yr old female.
I doubt it.
Are you the guy or the girl?
2007-03-08 11:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 29 year old female is in a completely different phase of her life than a 23 year old male. I am 29 and I want a house, kids, mini van (well ok not really a mini van), I now hate bars and clubs, I want matching dinnerware and yes I even want a washer and dryer..... 23 year old males generally want to drink lots of beer and get laid a lot, lol...
If the 23 year old male is extremely mature for his age then I think it could definitely work but like some other person answered before me what will happen when the 23 year old male runs across a cute 21 year old who wants to party and dance and etc.
It will take work but anything worth having usually does...
2007-03-08 11:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by M B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would work out.
A 23 year old male is just wanting to have fun with no commitments - that's OK cuz most 23 year old are just not mature enough to settle down.
However, a 29 year old female is most likely (even if she says she isn't) looking for a more stable relationship leading to marriage. Her biological clock is ticking!
But, who know, it could work. Stranger things have happened!
2007-03-08 11:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Libby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with that, my brother is married to a woman 17 yrs older than him. I say what ever makes the both of you happy.
2007-03-08 14:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by missjax72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im all for it if their both adults they can do what they want 6 years isn't much my parent are 12 yrs apart(married35 yrs) my sister is a yr older than her husband (married11 yrs)and my old boss is 14 yrs older than her husband(married9yrs) if their happy and they both want to be together i say good luck
2007-03-08 11:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by badluckbear1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they like each other a lot, age really shouldn't be a problem. There are many couples out there who have large age differences, so yeah; age is not, and should not an issue.
2007-03-08 11:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by Amei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing seeing as i am even older --than my husband and happily married for over 20 years, if it's love age does not matter.
2007-03-08 11:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being totally honest I would say stop fantasizing, zip up your pants and get something useful done, like tidy up your room.
2007-03-08 11:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship still works in six months - then it is worth it.
Age difference?? Who cares.. You are both "of age".
It's not like you are Anna Nichol. (Thank goodness she is finally buried.)
2007-03-08 11:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by Tom-PG 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a relationship bond between two people.. I think it is fine.. if to people are in love.. their in love.. no one or nothing can do anything about it..
2007-03-08 11:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋