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Trust your gut, leave the loser

2007-03-08 10:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

OK this is a BIG DEAL! I have a friend that found out her best friend was having an affair with her husband....she was told by both her friend and her husband that she was over reacting...her so called friend and husband are expecting a BABY now!!! This poor girl has attempted suicide after she suffered a nervous breakdown! Don't EVER let ANYONE tell you, you are crazy! You could find yourself actually going there. I tend to be to trusting but I am seeing that when you have ANY good clues and your gut says he's no good....he usually is...I am sooooooooooo sorry.

2007-03-08 19:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Godsent 2 · 0 1

there's loads of signs, there just not as obvious while your in the relationship(when you subconsciously don't want to see it) as it is when you get out
The way he lies beside you in bed, the way he can't look you in the eye when you challenge him(he clenches his fists), how he will try to start an argument from nothing(to make himself feel less guilty)..this way he can justify his actions to himself by thinking she's a ***** anyway.
The problem when you in the relationship, your too close to see. It will be all clear a few months after you dump him!!Good Luck

2007-03-08 19:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by lavito 3 · 1 0

by finding evidance....im sure ur probably not crazy,thats just an exuse for him he is probably cheating u could call him...well no cuz he denies it well...u could call frm a nother phone # and if he dosent answer then leave a sexy message like u wanna meet him somewhere and say like "hey baby u know who this is im just callin to see if u wanna go to the movies or someone....call me back at this #............bye hottie!!!!"or something like that....try to catch him while u can if he really is!!!!!~best of luck~
~victoria~

2007-03-08 19:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by ecuaadorianprincess001 2 · 1 0

If you have reason to doubt him...he's probably a cheater. A girl pretty much knows when she's being cheated on, it's just a matter of whether or not you're willing to face it.

2007-03-08 19:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea M 2 · 1 0

theres only one thing u can trust when u really don't know and that's your intuition. it never lies to u like a man will do. its like a sixth sense we women posses, we just know even when theres no proof. its that Little voice deep with in us, telling us all is not well, to beware and look at our lives. a man will try to make u sound as if its just your imagination, just to throw u off track and get u to focus on yourself.

2007-03-08 19:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0 0

The eyes usually tell it all, along with body language.
If he won't look you in the eye, or fidgets or moves around if he does, he's prolly lying. Personally, I can tell when my husband is lying to me, and it's usually when his lips are moving. A girl's intuition on these things is usually right!

2007-03-08 18:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1 0

Go through his cell phone number history (incomming and outgoing calls) and look for numbers that occur frequently. If you don't know who it is, call it. You should have your answer.

I agree that him calling you crazy is a good indicator that he is lying.

2007-03-08 19:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 1 0

well, just telling you that youre crazy and denying all cell calls doesnt mean he's cheating.

it means he has something to deny and doesnt want to discuss it with you for whatever reason.

if youre asking him about particular phone calls you are witness to...and he denies them and says youre crazy after you confront him about that.....He is hiding something.

2007-03-08 19:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Go with your gut feelings. Of course he's going to deny it & tell you you're crazy. That's what some men will say when their spouse is on to them.

2007-03-08 19:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0 1

Most people think they need "proof". You don't. Just say that you know there is something wrong, and that you both need to figure out what it is. If he says your crazy, then just say "Then I'll have to figure it out on my own, I guess" and let him ponder that for awhile.

2007-03-08 19:01:00 · answer #11 · answered by Paul 3 · 1 0

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