What is healthy about this lifestyle?

Question

I'm asking legitimately, because I can't see anything normal about it.

If you can't have children (as a result of your life choices and not because of a medical condition) and have to borrow someone else's to emulate the idea of a family (and call it what you want, a same sex parent home is NOT a family), that suggests an inherent abnormality.

I completely agree that it is natural, but it is a condition that needs to be treated so that people can go on to live normal lives.

I think it is natural to have an instinct, but to choose to ignore it and allow it to run rampant does massive damage to a person's psyche and to society in general.

To "Mr. Cute", please don't embarrass yourself. I am a 38 year old man, married for 8 years with 5 children.

My infant daughter has more class in her diaper than the entire gay community has, it seems.

Answer 1

Maybe not lying to the world and yourself anymore.

Answer 2

Jason, a blind man can see that you’re gay or bisexual. You have feelings for guys, but you don’t want them to run rampant (amusing words). I’m a 40 year old gay man. I’ve only been with two sexual partners and both were long term relationships. I’ve been with my partner for nearly 16 years, so you can’t say I’ve run rampant.

What’s doing damage to you is your feelings and not being able to come to terms with them. Being gay isn’t an “all or nothing” thing. It’s not “saintly virgin” or “total slapper”. You can have a loving healthy relationship with a man (without all the smutty sleeping around side of the gay world).

I have my partner and we’re both very happy. I’m not interested in having children and I’m sure I would feel that way had I been straight (I just don’t like the little brats). I think my relationship is healthy and loving, certainly more than a lot of straight couples.

update; Yes mate, that’s what all my straight male friends do. They sit on Yahoo Answers each day looking up all the gay stuff. Ask all your mates if they do the same and you might get a shock when you see the look on their faces. You’re not fooling anyone, only yourself and that’s where all your problems are coming from. I have nothing to be embarrassed about, but you do. Next time you have straight male friends round show them all your questions/answers. You wouldn’t do that because you know yourself what they’d all think.

At least with her we know what end the crap comes out of.

Answer 3

Jason Jason Jason, your contempt for us is showing again. How many times have you been suspended anyway?? Not to worry, I've never reported you, I find you entertaining as the quintessential example of a bigot disguised as a decent human being. Your politeness and composure belie the hatred seething just below the surface. Oh I know, you think it's natural but that we should 'control' ourselves and deny ourselves love and fulfilment as honest people. You would prefer we lie and go against our God given nature. Interesting argument, but you'll forgive me if I don't bother as I know who I am, what I am and what I feel, I suspect you cannot entirely say the same.

Therefore, I must dismiss you as just another oh so polite bigot who tries so hard to be earnest, sadly, those of us who been around awhile know the game and we just don't feel like playing anymore. Like it or not, I'm not asking your permission to sit at the table anymore, I'm simply taking my place and you and your kind be damned.

Edit: Jason, thank you for showing your true colours, the 'diaper' remarks kind of makes my point about you now, doesn't it.

Answer 4

Mr. Cute makes a good point. I don't know any straight men who will sit here on Yahoo! Answers asking so many questions of gay men. Other straight dudes would say "that's pretty gay," I guarantee it.

Oh, and gay men can procreate. I have several female friends who have assured me that if I want a child, they'll carry one for me. Just because I don't actually have intercourse with them doesn't mean they can't have my babies. My children... not borrowed.

And you have a wife and five children... you must be under A LOT of stress. What is healthy about that lifestyle?

Answer 5

Healthy about this lifestyle is well I can't see a problem.
Looks just fine from where I'm sitting.
If it works for you, then have at it as I'm not going to judge it.
Just for the fact I don't like being judge.
Have a good day :)

PS. There is something that you might want to do though.
(If don't mind ones in put?)
That is turn the light on, it's kind of dark from where I'm sitting.
Or lights on but no bodies home?
Edit : Jason who are you to make that call?
Normal or not- If not coming on to you in a bad manner then mind your own business.
Get a life and quit trying to run others.
LIFE IS TO DAM SHORT TO WASTE ON OTHERS BUSINESS!!!

Answer 6

Homosexuality is completely normal and completely natural.
I do not understand the reasons for all the prejudice. It occurs in nature and is just as normal as heterosexuality.

I do not know what you want to know in regards to health. Being a completely normal person who happens to like the same gender seems healthy enough to me. What is unhealthy about that? If it is "unhealthy", how is heterosexuality any healthier?

P.S.

Now you're being ridiculous with the family thing. Whatever happened to tolerance? Accepting others for who they are? Has it disappeared off the face of the Earth?

Answer 7

good grief....it's amazing how rampant ignorance and hatred is! why do you believe in every lie, assumption and generalizing stereotype that's been fed to you? because that's all the supports your irrational hatred.
it's not a "lifestyle"....it's just who I am. It's how God created me. it's not a "condition" to be treated. it's not an illness or a choice.
hatred is a learned behavior....and refusing to educate yourself with facts is like "choosing" to be stupid. go shovel it somewhere else.....these kind of ignorant questions are dull and tiresome.

Answer 8

Another bisexual guy who spends all his time looking at gay related stuff online. He’s not fooling anyone Mr Cute, we just laugh at this guy. I wonder what his wife and 5 kids think of his internet habits lol.

Answer 9

I think that being an ignorant bigot is a very unhealthy lifestyle.

It certainly isn't natural, since you have to learn how to hate.

Answer 10

What's healthy about your lifestyle? My lifestyle and yours are probably very similar. I'm a college student, my major is Math. I like bicycling and reading. Ok, so I'm gay and you're straight; big deal.

That's about as different as if you were black and I were white. Or is that a big deal to you too?

Edit-Who said I wanted to have kids? And anyways if you're so against Gays adopting then why don't *YOU* adopt, you ******* hypocrite