He's still married in a loveless marriage - they live under the same roof, no sex and there just for the kids sake - 2 more years. We're friends, but its escalating - Should I go out on a date with him?
2007-03-08 10:49:03 · 29 answers · asked by hot single mom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No... respect yourself more than that!!! Every woman deserves a man who is completely available to have a relationship. Don't compromise on that one, don't make excuses for the guy if he can't give you what you need. Have him deal with his marriage and his family, and you go on your way to meet an amazing person who will be all yours....
2007-03-08 22:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by - 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's in a loveless marriage. They all say that. Don't be a fool. Have you ever heard of the saying "You loose them like you get them". Sure have an affair with this poor guy. Don't forget karma. Be a real woman and go after someone who's single and not in a loveless marriage.
2007-03-08 19:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by ognib519 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, how many times have i seen some gullible girl on here talking about some guy who is in a loveless marriage
how do you know he is in a loveless marriage? did his wife tell you that? or did he just say that to get in your pants? did he just tell you whatever stories to try and get into your pants and to earn some pity from you?
if he was really in a loveless marriage then he would have left his wife by now, but aparently he is still there, and not just because of his kids, its because he wants to be there and he just wants you on the side, if you fall for it then its your own fault
2007-03-08 19:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy that staying together for the kids sake bullcrap. He has no intentions of leaving his wife and is more than likely lieing about it being "a loveless marriage". All he wants is to be married and use you on the side. If being this guys whore is what you strive to be then go ahead and stoop to that level of no self respect.
2007-03-08 19:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a married man once, when I was younger. He said that he was in a loveless, sexless marriage as well... it happens to be bullshit most of the time.
I say move on, there are plenty more fish in the sea for a beautiful young woman.
2007-03-08 19:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with abc's answer here, he just tells YOU that he's in a loveless marriage/no sex..... take your blinkers off girl, be strong and DO NOT GO on a date with him, that would only be letting him have his cake (the security of the home/family life, and someone else on the side, so to speak)
2007-03-08 18:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by smileyone 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to leave him alone. You dont want to be known as a slu_ or a home wrecker do you?? Besides that is just HIS side of the story. For all you know, they could be very well having sex, and she could think everything is fine with their marriage.
2007-03-08 19:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you feel that you would enjoy the date.
Othe answers are very judgmental. If you are an adult and can make decisions by yourself why would you not go on the date if it would be fun for you?
Nevertheless, I agree that you should not have high hopes for the future because statistically you are in a losing situation.
2007-03-08 19:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by adar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
It is not a good idea to wait someone's house turning into ruins to make yours out of it. If u are a nice person, you will help him understand that he has a family which is his priority. If they (he and his wife) have disagreements, then help them sort out those if your are a true friend.
Make sure what he is saying is true, may be he's saying all this for sympathy. Whatever the matter, Your role should be positive and constructive. Help to make things better for them because you are nice person and you love to see people happy. You are also considering that those two children don't see their parents separating for that will make an emotional dent on their innocent minds. Because what we see in our childhoods, lives with us for rest of our life.
2007-03-08 18:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by Goldman 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Guys use that line all the time. There's a very good chance it's bullshit. And even if it's not, it's not going to be a fun situation for you for those next 2 years. And then there's no guarantee he'll actually leave her even then.
2007-03-08 18:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by M L 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋