Question concerning marriage?

Question

a good age to get married?What do you all think?I'm 19 still trying to find the one and i hope that i get married by the age of 30.

Answer 1

wait until you have finished college and have had some fun and life experience, marriage is a part of life, not life itself.

Answer 2

I wanted to get married when I was 19, 21, 23, 25 then got married at age 27, Im 34 now and am happy as ever :) You tend to go through alot of changes between 25-30. Your views change and you wake up from your early 20's I'd say as long as "you" really know its right then any age after 30. Most important, don't get pregnant between now and then you may feel obligated to "do the right thing". If you hesitate, don't do it! Never second guess yourself there is something(your Angel, God) telling you its not time yet! Good luck and good question.

Answer 3

Most people today feel it is best to wait until you are financially secure to get married. Some even feel it is best to have school and work goals accomplished.
I feel if a person waits to long to get married they become so set in thier ways that adjusting to another is very difficult. I also feel that its not going through all the good times that builds a healthy bond but rather struggling and growing together. A key element is missing in marriage when both parties already have it all.

Answer 4

Age means very little in marriage. What is important is maturity. Some people are ready at 18...others not until well into their 40's. So, it depends.

I was ready at 22. I had done the things I had wanted to do, lived life as a single woman and was ready for the responsibility of marriage. No I had not finished college, but that wasn't a goal of mine. Some people aren't made for college, I was one of those people. Now I am in college and I am ready for the challenges it will bring.

I have no regrets.

Answer 5

Don't rush into anything or look for love in the wrong places.
I made the mistake of not understanding my marriage vows. Had I known that my vows were also a promise to God, I think I would have thought twice before marrying at such a young age and to someone I really wasn't in love with -

Answer 6

i think it depends completely on the individual. a person could meet 'the one' and be ready to get married and settle down very young. however, another person may not meet 'the one' until much older and therefore, won't get married until a lot later.

i don't think there is a universal good age to get married, it's just whenever feels best and like the right time for the individuals concerned :-)

Answer 7

Don't rush into marriage. You'll eventually have regrets, not neccesarily about the marriage, but maybe about your career, etc. A good age is an when you and your spouse is together for a year or more and hopefully in your mid to late 20's. You'll be more financially stable, statically.

Answer 8

You should get married when you find the right person. Dont put an age on it cause then you will just settle. Take your time and dont worry about that till you actually meet someone.

Answer 9

I think somewhere between 24 and 30 is just perfect. Just dont spend too much time looking for a husband - you might miss out on the life youre already in the process of leading!

Answer 10

don't listen to all that waiting crap. it's whenever you are ready, you have to be sure this is the person you want to spend your life with. how many people meet someone for the first time and know that they are going to get married? it's like that, it will happen when you find that person. don't worry, i'm 19 too and i have the same problem.

Answer 11

Give yourself some time, you are very young. You want the right guy, do not worry about how old you are when you get married, it is a very big deal, and should be doe for all the right reasons.