my female friend wants my husband to pick her up everyday for her to go to work 45mins. ride . plus i call her to back off and catch the bus . plus what's wierd i told my husband to stop picking her up all he said you tell her that ,so i did . now she call me and i did not answer so she left me a message ,can i answer her so call question. anywas she has a guy name dwayne who comes by her at night times and a guy name wilton she use to date and still seeing him and he just have his girlfriend came down from jamaica, and her husband to be ryan. plus see knows im a house wife with two kids i dont have a job so this is the time she plays the bitching game. once i decide to use the car to drop my husband to work she in the car making jokes with him and he looks at her and she looks at him . at times i tell my husband to stop picking her up and he says well she keep on calling me ,what a mess. i just wish if i can find a good man i would be in a better planet.
2007-03-08 10:25:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to her and tell her how you feel about the situation. Hopefully she'll understand like a mature adult and not act like a kid.
2007-03-08 10:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Celes Chere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to put your foot down on this situation. What the hell does this woman want? 3 guys plus YOUR husband? No way. Tell her to back off, she can get plenty of rides from the other men in her life. They are her men, let them cart her around. Tell your husband the same thing. If it were me, I would not be nice about it, either.
2007-03-08 18:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by dewdrop034 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your guy wants to keep picking her up, try giving him the ultimatum, pick her up again and we are threw. He sounds like he figures he has you and so he doesn't have to worry. Figure out a way to get away from this guy and focus on showing your kids how a real grown up is. Good luck, you can do it, just think of your kids and how they will someday see all this and it will be there image of what a man should be, do you want that?
2007-03-08 18:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she's just trying to get attention from as many guys as she can! You need to ask yourself if you trust your husband. If you truly know he wouldnt do anything to betrey you then just ignore her. You need to worry about you're family and not this bitchy girl. If she has a husband to be then maybe she'll stop trying to get your guy!! Maybe her fiance will realize shes just trying to get attention from all the guys and set her straight!!
Much Luck!!
2007-03-08 18:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you already talk to her.
I would work on your husband and explain to him that this really bothers you and if he does not stop giving her attention and give you more attention that you may have to get your own car and start going out without him to get attention that he is not giving you! See what he says then! Let us know what happen.
2007-03-08 18:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not drive yourself crazy about it like I used to. I embrace the fact that my girlfriend flirts by telling myself that sexuality is a natural urge.I think that it is worse for you to try to change him and better because maybe you can explore some of your own sexuality with him.
2007-03-08 18:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by dimndndaruff18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person was your real friend, she would not do this and your husband and you have some issues to discuss.
2007-03-08 19:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that was hard to follow. First off, she is not your friend. If your husband is not getting why this is not acceptable you both need to re-evaulate this relationship.
2007-03-08 18:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand your ground with him, not with her...your issue is with him and the choices he makes...you can't control him but you can draw boundaries then stick to those boundaries....give a penalty if he crosses the boundaries and stick to the penalty
clearly this woman is not safe
2007-03-08 18:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by an_articulate_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋