I am 32 yrs old woman, travel a lot on profession. I normally make friends, where I visit and have (mostly) sex with them. I am also married and hubby is back at home. Should I stop or no harm? So for, we had no issues on this.
2007-03-08 10:24:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
for some an open marriage is the way to go. but i think it only invites jealousy and anger in the end. because you are spending more time with someone else other than the person you are married to, and they have a right to get jealous, but they are wrong because they were the one to agree to an open marriage. usually it backfires.
in a case where it's not open marriage and it is cheating, it's wrong. it's not fair because you took a vow to honor and cherish, and you are betraying the person you married. it's not right. it's lying, stealing, and it will eventually ruin your marriage.
so i don't really think it's okay at all. but people do it, it's a fact of life. what i say has no bearing on what people do. i just know i would never do it and i would never tolerate it.
2007-03-08 10:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay married to this guy, stop it now. Sex outside of marriage is never a good thing. Those other guys aren't trying to build a life with you they are stealing what is yours and your husbands only.
2007-03-08 18:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are asking this question just to get us up in arms I will go along. If it is ok for your husband to have sexs while you are away traveling then , yes it is ok. What is your profession? Hooker.
2007-03-08 18:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by ???///??? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you like it if your hubby is having sex with someone on your bed and in your house when you are out travelling????
I guess not. Be faithful to him if you believe he is faithfull to you.
2007-03-08 18:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No issue because he doesn't know. And if he did know and had no issue, then I don't know what. You should stop. I don't know how you can have sex with someone and come home, like if nothing has happen, to your husban
2007-03-08 18:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband know that you have sex when you are out of town? If he knows and doesn't have aproblem then keep on. If he doesn't know and you are doing it behind his back then you need to stop. Also, is it ok if he had sex while you were out of town?
2007-03-08 18:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from the question I just asked, as long as it doesn't affect the marriage, it seems like it might be just fine.
2007-03-08 18:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. how would you feel if your husband was doing this to you? as far as no issues, he probably has no clue. imagine if he did. if you have kids, how would kids feel? think about it.
you are not only playing with your health but the mental health of those you love. they would be crushed.
2007-03-08 18:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by rsinfante69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband knows of it and approves of it then OK. But, I doubt that is the case and you are really looking for support for your trampish lifestyle.
2007-03-08 18:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It baffles me how you could even have to ask this question. Judging by your lifestyle your morals are obviously lacking. You're just weird...stop it!
2007-03-08 18:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by Candice B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋