He thinks I don't know about the porn, but I erase the history on the computer daily and noticed it. I don't think he is to dang sick if he can get his wee wee up to jerk off. what do you think?
2007-03-08 10:12:12 · 17 answers · asked by cordellialynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope I'm with you there if he can get up to do the prn thing then he can get up to get what needs to be done taken care of. I think you should call him out and tell him to quit faking
2007-03-14 09:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the computer and have him focus that sexual energy towards you. There is a possibility that he is looking at and tossing off to things he wishes you would do, but may not.
Look at some of the stuff he’s looking at. If you see similar things and they are not part of your activities, that’s what may be missing. If he likes sexy underwear, and you have non, go out and get some. If most of the women he’s looking at are shaved and neatly trimmed down there, and you are hairy, try shaving your pubic hair for a changes. Most women, once they loose a full bush, keep it short. I personally love a shaved area. If it’s an oral fixation (which is lacking in the bedroom), give it a shot. Maybe he is just tired of being the aggressor. If he keeps asking and you keep rejecting sex, jacking off is a temporary solution for him. He get’s off without inconveniencing you. He may think your happier without all of the sexual advances.
Porn is typically used as a substitute for things lacking in the bedroom. Try talking to him and see if there is something new he would like to try. Get creative and have fun with it. Try something YOU have fantasized about and surprise him. Unless it bestiality, bondage and something nastier, you should be able to come to an agreement.
Spend a Saturday in bed, all day. Stay nude and fool around for 8 hours. If nothing else, you could have a handful of orgasms and possibly figure out some solutions.
2007-03-09 10:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him you know about the porn and tell him what you think about that. Of course, he will still do it and try to cover it up more but at least you will have told him you know.
Then, yeah, I think you're right - he's not too dang sick!
2007-03-14 12:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!!!! Roflmao!!! You need to have a camra and catch him and play it in front of him. Put that child protection on the computer I would fix his sick behind! Be very quiet and catch him in the act and see how fast he moves when you catch him strumping his lil wee wee! Maybe you should tell him that you will play with it with him and he will stop!
2007-03-14 18:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by tressroy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many boyfriends and husbands masturbate while looking at porn on the Internet; I do, sometimes as often as one masturbation for each time I have oral or 'face-to-face' with my wife. I usually use pictures of more erotic porn than the things I do with my wife.
If you're not 'getting' as much as you want and he knows that you know that he masturbates, the next time he's whacking-off, why don't you go to where he's at his computer and stand next to him while you masturbate yourself?
And, to really get his goat, get yourself 'off' with multiple orgasms. Lean back against the wall and moan, moan, moan while doing it. Females are capable of multiple orgasms, whereas very few men can get off more than once (I often do myself twice at a time).
2007-03-15 13:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pornography is an addiction. He may be to sick to do other things,including you. but not sick enough to feed his addiction. it's just like alcohol or drugs, he gets a high off of it, take the keyboard to work with you. Let him know he's breaking a commandment if he cares anything about God.
2007-03-15 00:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by momfrenchie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must figure out when he does it...wait for him outside the room. When he starts to go at it...come in with some sexy clothes and ask him if he needs help....
I think he lost the fun factor out of you guys relationship and you became his MOM....why should you care if he watches porn....and track him at it...its his home...he should be comfortable....
My opinion...
2007-03-13 10:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is that determined to look at porn when sick then there is a problem. plus he is looking at porn regularly i assume.
he has an addiction and needs help.
2007-03-13 22:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Momma Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install NetDog Porn Filter on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2007-03-08 23:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by beyondhelper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He really is sick! AND he needs help with his porn addiction.
2007-03-14 17:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Johnnie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋