2007-03-08 10:07:53 · 17 answers · asked by Zack Z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Zack Z. Just the fact that you can identify that people may dislike you is a good sign that you realize things about yourself. Asking how you can change this shows that you earnestly want to make things different. With those facts known I am quite sure you can modify and change what is going on. Open your heart and don't let anyone tell you that you cannot change. We all change as we mature and age ,so belive that you can do the same. Understanding yourself is the first step to happiness and when you are happy it shows. Think about the things that make you unhappy, then think about why it makes you unhappy. See if there are things that you can do to make your life happier, and when you do, you will feel content and good. when you feel good about life your whole attitude changes and others are drawn to you like a magnet because you are radiant like the sun. When you are happy and accept yourself for who you are, and be proud of that, then you are naturally kind to others. If you are shy realize that everyone is nervous just like you. You are no different than anyone else. Believe in yourself and realize that you are here for a very important reason. God loves you and that is all that you need to know in order to have a happy life!! Once you are at peace with yourself, you will feel content. That is when it is easy for others to like you for who you are , and the wonderful gifts that you have to offer this world!! Which are many!! Best Wishes. kmj
2007-03-08 10:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by PC be with you my friend, kmj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...first off I would ask how old are you, and why do people say they hate you. I'm 17 and a senior this year. My advice is to find out why they hate you and do your best to counteract it. But sometimes people wont like you no matter what. Most of the time it is because they are jealous of how amazing you are. I know in my own life I often have people that hate me for things that I can't change. If yu can change the things about yourself that people hate then try your best to do so. If it's something you can't change, then let them act how they will and be jealous of you! Hope this helps! I don't hate ya! :)
2007-03-08 18:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by happysqueal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you are going through this. You might want to sit down and ask yourself what they don't like about you? I don't think you should change yourself because people are mean but some things you might now want to do around certain people to reduce the chance of them being mean. For exaple if they say something rude like say you smell, then maybe (even if YOU don't think you smell) you can shower more often? I assume you are young, this is a really hard time in school. I am sure you don't see it this way, but everyone gets made fun of by someone.
2007-03-08 18:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by lilmiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do they hate you?
If they hate you because you're an a**hole, then stop being such a jerk. If they hate you because you're annoying, then stop being so annoying.
If they hate you because of how you look, forget them. If they pick on you just to pick on you, forget them.
High school is a weird time in life. It's like fitting in matters so much. High school is like a whole little world where everyone tries to be cool and is a big fake. You'll grow up and learn. Don't worry about it, everyone goes through what you go through.
2007-03-08 18:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Just be who you are. People will be people, you can't change that. If you are who you are, then you will eventually be accepted by someone who likes you for who you are. Plus you wouldn't really want to be liked by someone who is stuck up or completely not themselves. You know what I mean? Because they are due to reveal the real self in them. Just be who you are. Can't go wrong there. Well...sometimes you can, but that's not the point. Good luck!
2007-03-08 18:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by The Random Blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For every person that says something mean say something nice. For every person that does something mean do something nice. By doing the nice thing they will be the ones that look like *******.
Look at it this way, if person A calls person B names all the time. But, person B show people respect all the time who looks worse?
Now, this doesn't mean let other people walk all over you.
2007-03-08 18:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you come off as very unnapproachable ? do you make mean comments during class or put other people down? try being generally nicer, if thats the case. nice gestures, like letting other people go before you or loaning pencils go a long way
2007-03-08 18:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would people hate u i bet that if u should tell people what u like and all and try 2 defend your self and be nice kind and that it does not matter what people think of u 2 me i think that u r a person who is nice
2007-03-08 18:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by layna 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself, without becoming a jerk. Then learn to love others, without becoming a pest, then in time, what you want will come to you, so long as you are being driven by sincerity, humility, and most of all patience what you want will come. Seriously.
2007-03-08 18:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Matticus Kole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude alll u gotta do is be urself if people dont like u den **** them there is always a click u can fall into u just have to find ur group and it will allll work out and most important dont forget be urself
2007-03-08 18:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by WtfMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋