if you and your spouse found out that you both were not in love with one another how would you remedy this?

Answer 1

For everyone said divorce, way to take the easy way out. What you need to do is work on your marriage, communicate, woo each other, fall back in love. Go on a nice romantic get a way. Come on, marriage is a commitment.

Answer 2

First of all, "in love" is not all it's cracked up to be. That stuff is kind of fairy tailish in some ways. I've heard people say, we love each other, but we're not "in love". That's a buncha gibberish. You either love each other or you don't. If you do, then forget about the "being in love" thing. Just do your thing. Every marriage gets "comfortable" and it seems like the parties might not be "in love" kissing all over each other and brandishing roses every other week, but they do love each other very much enough to make it work. However, having said that, if you are totally unhappy with each other, then make the break....and find something that does make you both happy. LIfe is too short to settle for second best.

Answer 3

Get a divorce. Situations like these can be tough if there are children, but in the end if you do not love each other and cannot make things work as a couple, then it is best to separate. Maybe try a separation first and see if you may be able to work through it. It's better to be right and be better off than be wrong and stay miserable in an unloving relationship. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

Divorce

Answer 5

Well to be honest theres not alot you can do. Cause both of you feel the same way that your not in love with each other so.. the best thing is to stay friends and go your separate ways....

Cause you cant make each other fall in love with each other cause that usually happens on its own, so for now just go your separate ways but remain friends who knows somewhere down the track you 2 maybe find each other again but see each other in a different light if you knw what i mean. Either way you 2 will be happier that way.

Good Luck

Answer 6

Well if both of you feel the same way then there are a couple of options. One maybe to seek counseling to see how the two of you got to this point, or you can both go your separate ways and find the happiness that the both of you deserve.

Answer 7

i would get a divorce. i know it sounds like the easy way out but it's not. you can't force someone to love someone else, believe me i have tried, and it only forces you further apart. in the great words of axl rose, "we both know hearts can change." it's true. people grow apart. it's not bad, it's just the way it is. both of you should be able to move on and try to find happiness somewhere else. it just wasn't meant to be. it's okay, that is why they invented no fault divorces.

Answer 8

A lot of people get married who probably shouldn't. If you both agree you're not in love, then you should divorce.

Things are usually more complicated, e.g. children, one of you is in love but not the other, etc. It doesn't matter. You should marry for love. If you don't then you should split up.

Answer 9

Ive been with my partner for 6 years and im very much in love with him. We have already talked about that "impossible" that you just mentioned, but i told him i would leave him if i fell out of love with him. Nothing is worse than living a lie and not loving the person that you are with.

Answer 10

Its either you try being friends or you try falling in love with each other I you looked at 50 first dates haven't you. She couldn't remember that she loved him and everyday she fell in love with him. You can't force it but all you have to do is start from scratch and get help from someone professional to work on it.