what should i do? please help!?

Question

so i was dating this guy that my best friend had liked, even though she said she was ok with it because she was over him. while we were dating she ended up breaking us up. and now my ex and i were thinking about getting back together, and she went behind my back to get him. she says they are secretly dating and not just friends with benifits. he says they are just friends becuaes i know hes messing around with another girl. but is she a real friend even though she has lied and backstabbed me? what do i do?? please help?

Answer 1

First off, NEITHER of these people are your friends. Merely bestowing the title of 'friend' on someone never changes their character or-in this case-the lack thereof. These two sound like a pair of sick puppies to me, and you should get FAR away from them. If they are dating, I say they deserve each other.

Concentrate on your other friends, or find others that won't mistreat you this way. You're worth more than that.

By the way, there's a man behind every tree on this planet, so don't worry about finding another.
Best Wishes!

Answer 2

Friends first
Mates second

if shes a real friend tell her whats up

Answer 3

if she goes behind your back and does that stuff i honestly wouldn't be her friend anymore. why waste time with those friends if u cane have great ones! And if u think your boyfrind is going to do that find a better boy! GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 4

Drop them both and get on with your life.... they both sound like cheats and they deserve each other.... true friends dont stab ya in the back, and true boyfriends dont mess around on their girls........

Answer 5

she is NOT a good friend. trust me ive been in situations with horrible friends before and i decided to just drop them. dont make her ure enemy tho, cuz, it aint good.