My best buddie got a life threatening illness, she got a lot of family?

Question

and friends, but we bin mates for a lotta years, she a very
independant person..no flowers ,, no nothing..any idears
how I can show I care ?? (PS we not gay, )

Answer 1

Sorry about your friend, she may have a lot of family but sometimes they are too close to help. The best thing you can give your friend is time, she will need to be able to talk about her fears both for herself and her family when she dies. She may not be able to do this with the family for fear of upsetting them. Make sure she knows she can contact you any time day or night, My friend used to phone at 3a.m. when as she put it " the heebie jeebies" got to her. She wouldn`t ring the family but we had loads of chats.
The only thing I bought for my friend was champagne because she could keep that down after the chemo and as she said we could get smashed and it wasn`t threatening her life!!
Be strong for her. Good luck

Answer 2

just be there for her! when times get tough lots of ppl become worried and back away. Let her know that you are there is she needs someone to talk to or cry with. Maybe you could make a collage with some picutres of you two together (that would always be a nice present).

Answer 3

Write her a letter which she can read to show her how much you care and have a picture of the two of you on it, so she feels that you are always by her side even when you're not there.

Answer 4

You should go visit her alot........you never know how much time there is left.

You should think about the things she likes for exanmple video games if she likes video games bring her sime and play

Just keep on telling her how much you are there for her and if she needs anything at all you are alwasy there

Hope I could help!!

Answer 5

Just being there for her can mean 1000 times more than a card. Just letting her know you appreciate her and will be there for her. Oh, and dont remind her she has a good chance of dying, just tell her that she WILL get better!

Answer 6

I am sorry your friend is sick. The best thing you can do is to be there for her, let her know that you are going stay by her side. Keep your chin up, I know this is hard on you and her family too.

Answer 7

Visit her and be there for her, I would bring her Food because if she is in Hospital then the food is awful and some of her fave food you have made for her will remind her of home and make her feel better!!

God bless

xxxxxx

Answer 8

Write something to let her know how much her friendship means to you and have it engraved on something. Maybe on a photo frame with a picture of the two of you together in happier times. lol xxx

Answer 9

To me, they do no longer lie. it particularly is the certainty, it shows they have self belief yet they additionally be attentive to deep down, it ought to pass incorrect. in addition they say it to strengthen their spirits because of the fact the guy who's ill pick a strengthen. what's the element of asserting, your no longer sturdy sufficient, your gonna die in case you do no longer combat. it is unfavorable their strengths, it particularly is going to deflate her/him slightly. they could be helpful to be sure that the ill individual to be helpful. I def could pick somebody to tell me that i'm sturdy and that i'm able to combat this. It;d provide me the potential to pass on. in simple terms each so often, it would not artwork.

Answer 10

well what does she have ?

do some reasearch on it.

see what you can do.
ways to help the diseasee.


what is it if you dont mind me asking, i have a life threatning illness myslef.

is there a cure ?
if not like my disease, then try to do a fundraiser to help find a cure.