ok so lets say I kindda hate my best friend she acts so rude to me and gos what ever and so who cares well I don't like that and if I say I can't be your friend I won't have any friends cuase all thoose people like her what should I do?
2007-03-08 09:21:21 · 18 answers · asked by chanel j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
find more friends before you stop being her friend and when you find enough friends tell her you dont want to be friends anymore
2007-03-08 09:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by amyr1996 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is hard. You sound young. My best advice is Friends are what you make of them. You can't control her and She do not control you. Don't outcast yourself because trust me from experience that makes it worse. In general you will always have to make nice to people you do not like even in the workplace. If you look at it this way you will have a few really good friends in your lifetime that are really true friends. But I have best friends that have been very rude to me and I am still their friend even to this day. And mind that was my best friend that I have know for 18 years. Though if they are disrespectful to a point that crosses a line just stand up for yourself .
2007-03-08 09:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will just tell her as it is on how you feel because shes doing that to you because you let her, and you do need to put your foot down cause shes making you look like the fool, and if she really is your best friend she would under stand you, if not just let her go cause its not worse you living like that sometimes you don't even want to see her cause she embarrasses you alot right! and her friends will you never know they might feel the same way you do some one needs to stand up to her. by the way there are alot of best friends out there you just need to find the right one i ve been best friends with mine sense we were in kindergarten that's 27 years we've had our ups and downs alot of boy fights but areal best friend stick till the end no matter what
2007-03-08 09:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by kittyg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to tell you that all this changes as you get older, but it doesn't. Girls/women for some reason love to play games and be friends and not be friends........If it really hurts to be friends with her, then stop - most likely you won't lose the other girls, they actually might follow your lead and leave her too! Good luck.
2007-03-08 09:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is rude to you then she is probably rude to everyone else too. Maybe if you stand up for yourself others might follow in your foot steps. You will probably actually gain more friendships by voicing your opinion than by not. Also, by standing up for yourself you are saying "I demand respect" and there is nothing wrong with that. You do deserve respect especially the respect of your friends!
2007-03-08 09:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one you don't need a friend like that. If she is telling you that she don't care or what ever. Then you need to step out and tell her and everyone that you don't like what she is doin'! You need to tell her to get her head out of her butt. That she isn't any better than the rest of the people in the world. No one is better than anyone. Stop being her friend. But I don't think that is going to stop her. Tell her what you think and still don't think that will work but soneone needs to tell her what they think. Don't just sit there and take it. Tell her off.
2007-03-08 09:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to connect with her. Figure out what it is about her that you like so much and makes her your "best friend". Focus on that and realize that everyone has problems.
She will probably grow out of it. Give it some time and if things don't work out, just don't hang out with her.
You know... you don't have to have a best friend anyway.
And make new friends!
2007-03-08 09:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cause they are all her friends too, don't mean that you can't be friends with them, she may bother you but if you share friends you are just going to have to deal with her, I am not saying you need to invite her over to your house Friday night for a party, but while you are at school and hanging out with friends just be casual, to her, like Hi, bye. And go on hanging out with your other friends.
2007-03-08 10:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by keyleeshay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real Friends don't bring you down they make you a better person. Don't be afriad to lose her. Take the courage to find someone who cares about you.
2007-03-08 09:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...lets put it this way...you don't need a friend who does that to you...you should talk to the other girls friends and get to know them a little better and then tell her because then they will be both of your friends....and if they are rel friends then they will stick by you..i know if i knew you better i would stick by you if someone was doing that to you...one of my friends always hitts me and she leaves four or five bruses on me a day...i told her to quit and she just hit me again....i had to tell someone so i started to tlak to her friends and one of her friends became my best friend(and alot of her other friends)and then i told them what she was doing to me....then i told her we couldn't be friends!!!!....i hope this advice helps....it worked for me...but if you decide to do that...then good luck...
~Nicole~
p.s.if they are snobs then i would just stop hanging around her and find new friends....no one like stuck up people..right?...well good luck!!!
2007-03-08 10:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋