If you found out indirectly that your husband was tempted to cheat on you but NEVER told you?
2007-03-08 09:18:51 · 32 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nope---tempted is not cheating...and aren't we all tempted everyday
2007-03-08 09:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Tempted as in he just thought about it to himself, probably not. But if there was someone rubbing up on him, trying to kiss him and he declined, yes I might be a little mad that he didn't tell me.
In the end, though, tempted is such an evil word, and no woman wants to imagine her husband being tempted to cheat.
2007-03-08 09:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, being tempted happens to everyone on anything. We get tempted to buy a new dress etc.... but don't buy it. It goes both ways. Just an example there.
If he was tempted, but never told you, what difference would it make if he did tell you. You should be grateful that he didn't go through that temptation of his, instead he beat it!
2007-03-08 09:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't be mad. In fact, I would be amazed if he noticed a woman hitting on him. I'm sure he is tempted everyday. It is just what he does about it.
I'm tempted quite often, but I won't stray from my husband. I've been all sides of the affair triagle and I don't wish to participate in it again.
2007-03-08 09:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was just "tempted" but never did anything.. then no, I would not be mad at all. I would be glad that I have a husband who cares enough about me, and has enough self restraint than to just jump at whatever woman makes advances at him.
I mean, what's there to say anyway? He didn't even do anything...
It sounds to me, like the man knows his own boundaries, and stayed within them. Good for him!
2007-03-08 09:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 questions for you
1. Aren't you human? Everyone is tempted.
2. Would you rather he did tell you?
Look he was challenged & did the right thing. What more could you ask for?
I suspect he didn't tell you because you'd freak out.
2007-03-08 09:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'd be mad if he did tell me. What's the point of saying, "hey honey, i was really tempted to cheat but I didn't. Aren't you proud of me?"
2007-03-08 09:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info. If he was just thinking about it, I think you two probably have some things to work through but i wouldn't be mad. If he was like at the hotel room with someone and then decided to bail i think you have reason to be pretty mad.
2007-03-08 09:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because I have been tempted, and as long it remained a thought, I would be okay with it.
2007-03-08 10:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is a very big difference with being tempted and taking the bait???
2007-03-08 09:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't count because I am a husband, but no he didn't cheat be happy. Just think he could have but didn't, that should tell you something.
2007-03-08 09:24:17 · answer #11 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋