My best friend hates my boyfriend because all the rumors being spread around. She says that he smoked but i know and he knows that he didn't. All that i tell my friend she still wont believe that he is a great guy. What can i say to see that he is the best thing that has happened to me without ruining our friendship and not breaking up with my boyfriend???
2007-03-08 09:15:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Drama really. That's all it is. I think your friend is either jelous of him or of you or she just hates him and is looking for any reason to not talk to you or to have an excuse to hate him.
2007-03-08 09:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you have to ask your self how much you trust your friend?
If you think that she has a valid reason to prove your boyfriend is not good for you, you should listen to her. Maybe she knows something you dont. And guys do lie a lot.
If she does not have a valid reason (which in this case) sounds like she doesnt, you should ask her what is really going on with her? why is she making up lies to get you to leave him? Find out her reason! She could be a "best friend in discize"(cant spell)
friends last forever, boyfriends come and go. but the only friend that lasts forever is a true friend. not a back stabbing jelously raving "best friend"
maybe you should rethink what a best friend means to you.
a best friend to me, is someone that respects YOUR decisions and has got your back no matter what. even if you are wrong, you are the one who needs to learn from your mistakes. you "best friend" is not your mother, and does not need to protect you. She needs to be there for you for what you decided.
just find out why she is acting like this. You might be suprised
2007-03-08 17:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by jiggamaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's childish because you shouldn't have to pick between either one ya know?! They both you respect you and each other if they really care for you and wouldn't want you to go thru their baby fightz!! One of em has to be the bigger person and get it together. My bf and my best friend dont get along either they argue alot but I think my best friend likes my bf and is jealous at times. But sooner or later they'll be okay...dont force em..new relationships take time and ya friend might b jealous of u and ur bf'z relationship...like mines was...or it could vice versa
2007-03-08 17:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by chocolateflavadgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This same thing is going on in my life. if you tell your friend over and over again and she still don't belive you but your other friends do.Then she either likes him and wants you to break up so she can get with him or she just don't like to see yall around each other and she is probaly jealous and you should follow your heart and belive the boyfriend and forget about her u have other friends
2007-03-08 17:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard cause i went through something similar...I choose to keep my best friend close to me cause I knew she would always be there and u never know if this guy will work out or not....not sure if that made sense or helped bu ti hope so
2007-03-08 17:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by Poosocks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your friend needs to learn how to mind her business i know as a best friend is our job that our friend doesn't get hurt but there's times were we just need to back of she already told you how she feels so now is up to you so she really needs to back off your as* just tell her that you are thankful to have a friend like her that cares but that it's your decision and she just has to back you up 100%
2007-03-08 17:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen first,TAKE A CHILL PILL.Second relax this an easy simple way of getting this strait to all your bffs and you bf.Tell them that u want a girls night with them and invite them over to hang.Then invite your bf over and tell him that the girls aint coming over then when they all get there it might seem bad but all you got to do is say if your good enough to be my bf ya have to be nice to my friends and if your good friends you'll be nice to my bf.OK.
2007-03-08 17:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by PERSoN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend is jealous. Tell her you don't want to have to choose, but if you're pushed you will have to make a decision and she probably won't like it.
2007-03-08 17:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WATCH THE HILS LOL YOU CANT MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY JUST MAKE SURE YOU ARE A FRIEND SHOULD BE YOUR FRIEND NO MATTER WHAT AND IF SHE CANT BE BY YOUR SIDE THEN YOU DONT NEED HER FRIEND SHOULD BE THERE TO PICK YOU UP WHEN YOUR DOWN AND SHE SHOULD BE YOUR SHOULDER TO CRY ON IF HE BRAKES YOUR HEART IF NOT GET A NEW FRIEND.
2007-03-08 17:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by vanessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In cases like these all you can do is tell your friend that you appreciatte her opinion but don't see things that way right now.
2007-03-08 17:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋