I don't know why he is ignoring me.
I have talked to him he says nothing is wrong.
I don't know what to think but I haven't done anything.
On his days off he goes and works which is cool...but before he use to be home in time for when i got home and now.. the more he can stay the better he thinks it is.
I have told him that i feel that he's pushing me away slowly and he says he doesn't think so!
What should i think?
2007-03-08 09:10:22 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Something is up. He may be trying to hide it, or maybe he is in denial. Usually it has to do with another woman. There is a possibility that maybe he's just thinking about her, fantasizing about her, but then he feels guilty and realizes that maybe he doesn't deserve you or your love, so then he starts to push you away to justify what he is thinking about. He doesn't want to get rid of you, but you are kinda in the way of his fantasy right now.
Don't try to get closer or build him up right now, because that will make him feel worse and he will push you away harder.
I would change the rules of the game. Suddenly become busy with your own stuff, aloof, go out with friends, tell him that when he's finished with his bullshit to come and find you. Play hard to get. Make him fantasize about you again.
2007-03-08 09:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be losing interest in you, or he might be just an emotionally distant person.
Either way, I'd break it off with him and get with a more affectionate and attentive guy who gave me the love I needed.
2007-03-08 17:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Guernica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about your boyfriend? If so ...you should talk about this with him and ask him what's been up, just be honest and confront your feelings to him, tell him it's really bothering you/hurting you, maybe hopefully you'll find the answer you want â¥
2007-03-08 17:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time and see whats up maby he have a problem or maby he wnats u away. u never know but time will tell u
2007-03-08 17:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are unhappy. Tell him that you need things to change. Tell him that you love him and you want to spend more time with him.
2007-03-08 17:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Horace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is proble to shy to talk to you and just go up to hem and tell hem that you are the only boy i wont
2007-03-08 17:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by william w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's found another interest? dont wreck your brain, you did nothing wrong. he's being a coward not facing you.
2007-03-08 17:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's having his period....leave him be for a time....
2007-03-08 17:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him.
2007-03-08 17:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by B rabit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋